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[vanyd]

So... i went on a date. My date was half an hour late (he says he got lost), we went to Chili's (I refused to make him pay for cheesecake factory or anywhere like that), and then we walked around the mall for 30 min or so.... He wanted to see a movie afterwards but I made up some weird B.S. and left (awkwardly). Sigh

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[ramgor]

Ok.

First of all, you need to BREATHE.
The most important thing about dating is to figure out what you DON'T like in guys, and to do that, you need to give them a chance. Loosen up a little bit, and if you get uncomfortable, be honest about it. You couldn't possibly know if you like him yet, but a better question is, is he cute? Did he make you laugh? Aside from being late, did he do anything that really turns you off? If the answer are yes, yes and no, give him a second chance. You NEVER know- and really, what the worst that could happen?

I should write a book.

[vanyd]

He's cute. Like, literally "cute." If you had asked me what he looked like after the initial time we met, I wouldn't have been able to tell you. It wasn't until our actual date that I took time to look at his face, hahaha... Um, he makes me laugh-ish. His biggest downfall is that he isn't charismatic or very animated. That kinda bothers me :/ He hasn't done anything to really turn me off. He's really sweet, he's a gentleman, he compliments me a lot. I think he's the one who needs to loosen up, maybe. I'm getting boooored....

Please write a book and then autograph a copy for me.

P.S. We went on a second date in which he met my friends. They like him.

[ramgor]

Hmmm- well if he tried to kiss you like it says down there....BIG nono. So I'm gonna go with no. But there's a deeper reson you don't like dating. think about thatttttt one for a minute ;)

I say this only cause I hate dating. :)

[vanyd]

I hate dating as well. hate hate hate it... I just came back from my 4th (...5th...?) date with him. He's loosened up. I'm still not kissing him, tho!!! Lol

[kylieboop]

i can relate to this brittany. any date i've ever been on has never developed into anything, because i think dates are awkward and i'd rather be comfortable someone first. i don't know what kind of advice to give you... i just wanted to say that i can relate. hahah sorry for my pointless comment

[vanyd]

Lol, it's all good. I'm glad you can relate! At least I'm not all alone!!!! I literally met him less than a week ago! Crazy, right? He tried to kiss me and I dodged that shit like a ninja. :P
Dating is the pits.

I MISS YOU A LOT. just thought I should say... oh, and I'd never steal from you.... which reminds me of the time "someone" was stealing hand soap, deodorant, and shampoo from us. LMAO

[kylieboop]

i had a klepto date once- he was stealing things on our date! what a nightmare. just thought i'd add that.