A wonderful wonderful song.....

[vanyel_ash]

~Dance with my father~ by Luther Vandross

Back when I was a child
Before I've removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high
And dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me all around til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure, I was loved

If I could get another chance
Another walk, another dance with him
I'd play a

Comments

[morningbear]

So my mom hates me and my dad just said if I can't impress my mom by 2007, I'm officially out of the family....wow...I love my family

[vanyel_ash]

[morningbear]

Actually, 25 and I've had one stable job before but I quit because it was too political and the hours were nuts (120 hours per week...) I raked in tons, had a great job title and my family was really impressed and loved me a lot...

I quit to go for a second degree because I was so unhappy...then I had a major depression and a mental breakdown...then I kind of recovered...and now this happens.

I often thought about leaving my family....but I can't....I don't want to leave them....

[vanyel_ash]

I see I see. U're only 1 year older than me then. Sigh. I know it's hard to leave ur family becoz I know how much u love them. Mebbe u can just move out n get a place of ur own? Let urself and ur family have some space n one day, mebbe they'll realise their wrongs n accept u again? It's really sad that ur family's love is based on how much cash u can rake in. I mean, I know for sure my mum n dad will feel very proud and happy if I can get a job with a higher pay but that doesn't mean they love me any less now....ok,my father's abit more realistic so I bet I'll get a better treatment then than wat I get now but well. *shrugs* He agrees that this is a very suitable job for me so he can't really complain as well. In any case, I still think it's good for u to have some space, get some fresh air b4 u deal with ur family again.