OH yeah and I posted the answer in my LJ. I think I feel a little serious about this topic. LOL

That being said, short version, get your ass off the damn phone. Exceptions for most people I know carry their phone within earshot. So should a call come in they can check it and silence it. Some of us have spouses that call to ask us to bring something on the way home or let us know if something came up emergency enough wise. I have been at that bar with everyone in charge of calling someone else for us to meet there. Ready to give directions and recommendations for parking. What to order to drink or eat.