So sorry about your kitty :( I have the same philosophy about outdoor cats... but I still worry about mine whenever I hear someone speeding down the road.
I think there are times in life when a lot gets thrown at us at once, sometimes more than we can even really process. It just takes time to get through it. But I do believe that even when there is too much for us to handle, and it seems like life will never feel right and good again, in time that can and will change.
It will change, this I know, but meanwhile, as I wait for the change to come, shit keeps happening. Which makes the light at the end of the tunnel all the more dim.
i am so sorry about ollie. that is so sad. i know you've had a really rough few months & it is totally unfair. although i can empathize to a degree with how shitty it feels when the hits just keep coming, i can only begin to imagine the depth of everything you've been going through.
i don't believe that everything happens for a reason, either, which i think initially makes bad things harder to process -- all i know is you've gotta feel what you feel & the truly great thing about being human is that we're incredibly resilient & able to handle just about anything.
yeah, you hit the nail on the head. we (the hubby and I, considering that he's going through ALL of this too) have been very concious of making sure that we don't stuff it down into the abyss, but deal with the emotions when they come. thank god for him, too. he's a rock. thanks for the response.
oh sweetie. this is awful. i can't believe you're having such a hard time. you are brave and strong, you will make it through. i send you big hugs. godspeed, ollie.
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I think there are times in life when a lot gets thrown at us at once, sometimes more than we can even really process. It just takes time to get through it. But I do believe that even when there is too much for us to handle, and it seems like life will never feel right and good again, in time that can and will change.
Anyway, my thoughts go out to you.
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It will change, this I know, but meanwhile, as I wait for the change to come, shit keeps happening. Which makes the light at the end of the tunnel all the more dim.
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i know you've had a really rough few months & it is totally unfair. although i can empathize to a degree with how shitty it feels when the hits just keep coming, i can only begin to imagine the depth of everything you've been going through.
i don't believe that everything happens for a reason, either, which i think initially makes bad things harder to process -- all i know is you've gotta feel what you feel & the truly great thing about being human is that we're incredibly resilient & able to handle just about anything.
it's really goddamn unfair, though.
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thank god for him, too. he's a rock.
thanks for the response.
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give Yoko lots of hugs for him.
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