Hey Gurl,I was reading through random peoples entries and yours caught my eye.I would not go through with it if I were you.At the age of 18 I dated a a sweet 33 year old and later discoverd he pretty much jus wanted me in bed.now I'm 21 and a month ago I broke up with my 36 year old boyfriend of 3moths because it dawnes on me that we want Very differnt things in life.I see your in school and he has probabbly been through that already, he may have or want kids and that is alotta drama, he might wanna get married soon (even id he says he doesnt)bnut most of alll, whats up wit him that he wants a 20 yearold?It's usuaaly bout sex.Have you slept with himn yet?DONTT!Its not worth it because it wont last.You should not go out with him.TRUST---I've been where you are twice now!I'll be checkinn back to see what you think.GOOD luck,gurl.just remember%%%men are DAWGS!dont belive the sweet talk
Well Basically this is my philosophy. I dont want a relationship with anyone, so i dont usualy have them. I honestly dont know what i'll do because i get so many mixed reactions the one thing i know for sure is that, i'm not that attatched (i never get attatched)so i'll always have my head on my sholders. I'm being OVERLY careful with this one..... i'll decide what i'm going to do after Valentines day.. since i said we would go out... Heres to hopeing
okiedokie gurl.If you say you have a good head about it.But I'm still going to warn you that he just wants sex.And if you are cool with being used like that then I hope you get more confidence down tha road.I should not gett to personal but I have had many issues with the older men in my family like my father and grandfather and it has grately effected how I am with relationaships.I do;nt know how you are but maybe we are going through similar things.positive selfesssteem is what I wish on the bboth of us.
I understand how that can affect your judgement, but heres the deal. Hes not getting any from me in that way unless i give it... and thats not too often. I actually have gained esteem off this because of me saying No and him saying Ok.. but again i'm not takeing this seriousley at all... because the second i do... the second i'll screw up... thank you for the careing though!
I agree that you should be very wary of dating this really old dude. He can't be the only stable guy you know if he's dating someone 13 years younger than him.
exactly, so let me have my fun.... i use more guys than should be allowd! whats one more! see everyone expects the girl to be hurt.... fuck that... girls are smarter than any man alive! WE RULE THEM.. i mean he plays coy... but seriousley, if you call me 2 times and text me once without a responce... your schooled!!!! But i do understand where you come from... whats your SN we should chat!!!!!!
That is great that you say you are in control and I am not saying every gurl gets hurt but I have to ask this= in your original post you asked for advice.I thought I could help and offer some (an' it looks like someone else did too) but all you did was defend yourself.Did you really want advice or did you just want people to say "go gurl!get that older man!"I am kind of confused.
Honestly i dont know anymore. When i wrote the original post i was confused, it has since then just been so blown out of proportion by people, i'm becomming defensive. I have never wanted anyone to even say "you go girl" in my presence lol so that is not the aim. I'm just an individual who preaches that people are people and not ages. I just was hopeing someone could reasure that i was just expirencing another part of life, and not leading to the eventual doom that would be my life if i attempted to persue this. So the reaction is soley based on an annoyance of the general public in my real life and not specifically to you
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