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[velasco]

Mystery glasses have been solved: they were indeed Trevor's, he left them on my bed after going into my bedroom following a cat when he came by to drop off the spare keys his father had given him, when I was still at work. He came by and got them earlier today, when I was still at work

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[punchyshaman]

I have quite a bad history with Ex's myself and I've learned that when living alone to change locks after each ones.

Yea, yea, I've had to do it a few times :P

Sadly my last evil Ex is the reason I ended up leaving my apartment and moving in with my parents again. Dunno if I can do the whole living alone again after that.

[velasco]

I didn't think I would HAVE to. I honestly did not fathom that he would be so creepy; yeah, he was into some creepy shit, but not to this extent.

[missko]

Wowzers this is sort of intriguing. Why the heck would he want to go into your room? Curious or just missing you??

It sounds like this horrible re-occuring dream I have ... where I find myself in an ex-boyfriends familys house or something (various ex's), have no effing clue what I'm doing hiding in one of the rooms .. can hear people stirring about. How HUMILIATING it would be if an ex caught me prowling about!!!!

[velasco]

I don't care if he was curious, missing me, snooping around or ANYTHING, not once did I imply that he would be welcome to open a locked door and enter my bedroom, let alone leave before I got there and lock it back up behind him; the only way I DID know was because he left the glasses behind. And then he did it again to retrieve the glasses (obviously having to search for them, as I had moved them since). That is so far beyond any definition of appropriate that it staggers me how he would be confused about why I was upset.

But, it's over now, and I've heard nothing more from him for months. And I'm happy to keep it that way.