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[velasco]

I do wish that Trevor could have met mom at least once. Spent some time with her, gotten to know her, taken a car ride with her a time or two.

Maybe then he would have understood. >_I have come far, at least, and farther still from my mom's mom, but I see me in her, even more now that I've been away from it for a sufficiently long time and can be

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Hang in there!!!

[missko]

I don't know much about your relationship with your mom, or the status of your relationship with Tre ...

*sigh* I feel so glum after reading this entry because it reminds me of my past experiences, where I blamed certain aspects about MY life and MY relationships with certain family-members (i.e MY shortfalls) to justify the way a particular asshole delt with my 'issues', how he utlimately left me (tactlessly-sp).

Tre sounds like a shiaster, I hope you don't beat yourself up over the kid ... you are worth having a partner that stands by you regardless of your 'shortcomings' .... unless there's a lot I don't know about you (like you torture insects or something :) :))

xoooo

Re: Hang in there!!!

[velasco]

Uhm, Tre is a good guy :p I'm not trying to blame how I acted to tham (that's Trevor) on how mom brought me up, and he had his own issues that contributed to us breaking up too. But it's hard not to see certain...similarities of how she dealt with problems (blowing up at them) or people (blowing up at them) or...well, how I instinctively react to situations of my own nowadays. How you are brought up DOES have a big part in how you act later down the road. And no, it's not to blame them, but you do have to work harder to realize that what you're doing isn't right just because it's "normal" to what you grew up knowing.