I'm not sure if it's that the guy I'm dating is complicated and wasting my time, or if it's that it's all so simple I'm just over analyzing every thing
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I'm going to be brutally honest with you for a moment.
It seems to me that whenever you start seeing someone, you become far too emotionally invested, far too quickly. You say you don't want shackles or anything of the sort, but then you meet a guy and before you know it you're hopelessly enamored and then something happens and your heart is broken because you gave so much of it to this person.
I also think that the main reason you're so concerned with him going away is because to you, him leaving means he doesn't care enough about you to stay. I think the key here is to always approach the situation rationally. It's admittedly unromantic, but I'm afraid you can't really have it both ways.
In most cases I would agree with you. But in this case all I really want is a summer romance. I just feel like if he's not going to be around I should find another guy. It kinda defeats the purpose of having a fling if we don't see each other.
I have to agree with this. There is definitely a pattern in your new-relationship-phase entries. It ALWAYS feels fun and romantic in the beginning. A new guy ALWAYS feels right and perfect. It ALWAYS feels like it's going to be different this time. And it's okay for you to have fun or feel good about being with him. But. Time is really the best way to know if someone is right for you, and it's best not to put your hopes up within the first couple of months.
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It seems to me that whenever you start seeing someone, you become far too emotionally invested, far too quickly. You say you don't want shackles or anything of the sort, but then you meet a guy and before you know it you're hopelessly enamored and then something happens and your heart is broken because you gave so much of it to this person.
I also think that the main reason you're so concerned with him going away is because to you, him leaving means he doesn't care enough about you to stay. I think the key here is to always approach the situation rationally. It's admittedly unromantic, but I'm afraid you can't really have it both ways.
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But in this case all I really want is a summer romance. I just feel like if he's not going to be around I should find another guy. It kinda defeats the purpose of having a fling if we don't see each other.
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