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Jun 30, 2008 18:42

It's actually really simple. I stopped hanging out with people who are drama queens MONTHS ago. I made some drastic changes about the people I choose to make time for. Honestly, I've never been happier. The stress in my life is cut in half, probably more ( Read more... )

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forgetuforgot July 2 2008, 02:03:46 UTC

I truly believe this is only a realization that can come with age and experience, you know? At like 24/25 I had to TEACH myself how to enjoy my own company and it was CRAZY hard at first. But in the end, I'd choose being my own best friend over being mindfucked and manipulated ANY DAY.
I'm so grateful for you every day! You mean the world to me. The fact that you came back into my life when I needed someone just like you THE MOST is no coincidence in my opinion. I think this is the first friendship I've ever had where I have felt I can be 100% real because you're not hiding behind a wall of morals that shift around like one of those slide-y little plastic puzzles you get in a goodie bag at a kiddie party.

I love you <3

velouramor July 2 2008, 02:46:34 UTC

OMG I KNOW the puzzle pieces you're talking about and I NEVER liked them! And friends can be JUST like those. Great analogy hun. Like they'll act like they get where you're coming from and they'll be all in agreement with you. All "Oh me too" then they go hang out with someone else and be like "omg Jenn..."
It's SO stupid and childish and I'm too old for it, I really am. It wasn't cute 10 years ago and it's not cute now.
At least you and I are in the same place mentally and emotionally and we can hang out with people at our own levels and just have fun and enjoy our lives. I don't want to waste my time in this life with stupid shit when I could be doing something that makes a DIFFERENCE for someone, anyone. I know you feel the same way because you have a kind heart.

I love you! And you're so much fun!

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velouramor July 2 2008, 02:41:04 UTC

We ABSOLUTELY need to hang out! I felt terrible that we had to rush off like that after picking up the candles but my mom had to go to work.

You, me and Sam need to grab a couple drinks! We're bringing our mothers out tomorrow so we won't be out late you should come hang out!

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velouramor July 2 2008, 15:39:05 UTC

I love wine! We should totally do a wine, cheese and Buffy night!