I think you have good points. I (and not just me, but all of us who received criticism, which I think is most people who posted it) should take this post as a learning experience. But I don't think that anyone has been arguing/dismissing/blowing off the criticism they received - I for one have accepted all of it, and I think the others have as well. I think many people, however, are simply really curious to know who it was who is angry/disgusted/offended at/by them.
I'm not going to say anything anonymously. First, I want to reply to Vikram's comment here. It is only a learning experience if you believe the stuff that they say. If you see merit in the commentary, no matter how harsh it was, then good for you, I wish you luck in trying to change. But what people say on those things aren't necessarily truth. For a good portion of it, I read it and was upset by it because I thought it was true. The more I read it, the less credit I gave those who said it because I know that what they said is not who I am and they cannot pretend to know the motivations behind my actions.
And, to comment on this post altogether, I did comment on every "criticism" written. At first I thought it was criticism, but the more I read them, they weren't. I have said this many times before, criticism is said face to face, at least when it comes to matters of personality and human interaction. The way some things were written were malicious, and I realized that after taking them into consideration. I was defending myself as
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As for the last paragraph, I'm really not asking for absolution; I included the first bit simply so that you all would know that I have some experience. Thank you for the thought, though
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That was a lot of slashes.
In the...punctuational sense of the word.
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And, to comment on this post altogether, I did comment on every "criticism" written. At first I thought it was criticism, but the more I read them, they weren't. I have said this many times before, criticism is said face to face, at least when it comes to matters of personality and human interaction. The way some things were written were malicious, and I realized that after taking them into consideration. I was defending myself as ( ... )
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More later...am in training now.
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I HATE ALL BIG-NOSED ELITISTS.
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