but then I'd always be hoping that he would call because he missed me and that he made a mistake.
i think this is the one difficult thought that is holding you back the most...and it is a justified thought as well, because it happened before...hang in there sweetie
But then somewhere inside, I play the song "when will this end? when will he tire of this? when will the tables be turned around so that I want to spend time with him and he doesn't?"
What is this voice telling you? Deep down this is what you believe that you are tiresome and not worthy. And ALL of us are tiresome to a certain degree, but that doesn't mean we're unlovable. We're just human.
Listen very closely to those voices in your head. Acknowledge them, embrace them, just DON'T BELIEVE THEM! Try not to look beyond this moment, it's all that really exists anyway. It's when we start investing our emotional energy in what ifs or maybes that things start getting more difficult. Deal with life as it IS not as it MIGHT be.
Anyway, this is that kind of advice that's easy to give, but not so easy to follow. It sucks I know. Hang in there!
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I'd talk to carolyn...she's good at talking to people about relationships and stuff.
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i think this is the one difficult thought that is holding you back the most...and it is a justified thought as well, because it happened before...hang in there sweetie
*hugs*
love from janie
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What is this voice telling you? Deep down this is what you believe that you are tiresome and not worthy. And ALL of us are tiresome to a certain degree, but that doesn't mean we're unlovable. We're just human.
Listen very closely to those voices in your head. Acknowledge them, embrace them, just DON'T BELIEVE THEM! Try not to look beyond this moment, it's all that really exists anyway. It's when we start investing our emotional energy in what ifs or maybes that things start getting more difficult. Deal with life as it IS not as it MIGHT be.
Anyway, this is that kind of advice that's easy to give, but not so easy to follow. It sucks I know. Hang in there!
*hugs*
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