"my empathic girlfriend sends her love....."darkwaverJuly 10 2006, 06:31:24 UTC
"dinah wanted me to talk about all this with her. But at the time, I just sat there thinking, and saying "What is there to talk about? My friend is suffocating to death, will eventually go to sleep, slip into a coma, then die.""
that's precisely what You should say when feeling like this.
there -is- no wrong or right thing to say when talking about how you feel... i sometymes i wish You didn't have such a strong sense of "must stay strong"ness because i think You might feel better after a good solid breakdown...
anyway, like i said earlier, it doesn't matter to me that next weekend is our anniversery, i couldn't/wouldn't enjoy serving You, knowing You were worried about Your friend, and so, i would rather You spend as much tyme as possible with him... i can wait..this is more important..
::kneels:: i wish i knew what to say or do to make You feel better
I didn't comment to the last post you wrote about Mike, simply because I didn't know what to say. Things like, "I'm sorry" are cliche and lack real emotion after one is past the age of five. I still don't really know what to say, but I just want you to know that as your friend, I'm here for you. You've always been here for me and you're entitled to no less.
yes, Vince, that's a good idea.. if You are still uncomfortable 'letting go' or crying in front of me (which i still find disheartning), then may i request You at the least ring up nikki??
there have been a few tymes when i needed a good cry, but didn't want to burden You for some reason or the other with more of my tears, so i've gone to niko, and she is an superb listener....
doesn't matter how small nor how large the issue at hand is, she's great to 'spill it' to, as i am sure You are already aware..
my pet, there are many things that I find disheartening, but here and now is not an appropriate time to discuss those. So I will respond by saying that it isn't just you that I am not "letting go" in front of. I lack the ability to let go in front of anyone to any greater extent than you saw. Most won't even seen as much as you have, so you really shouldn't feel disheartened. In a twisted way, you should be happy that I opened up as much as I did
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that's precisely what You should say when feeling like this.
there -is- no wrong or right thing to say when talking about how you feel...
i sometymes i wish You didn't have such a strong sense of "must stay strong"ness because i think You might feel better after a good solid breakdown...
anyway, like i said earlier, it doesn't matter to me that next weekend is our anniversery, i couldn't/wouldn't enjoy serving You, knowing You were worried about Your friend, and so, i would rather You spend as much tyme as possible with him...
i can wait..this is more important..
::kneels::
i wish i knew what to say or do to make You feel better
much love,
dinah
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if You are still uncomfortable 'letting go' or crying in front of me (which i still find disheartning), then may i request You at the least ring up nikki??
there have been a few tymes when i needed a good cry, but didn't want to burden You for some reason or the other with more of my tears, so i've gone to niko, and she is an superb listener....
doesn't matter how small nor how large the issue at hand is, she's great to 'spill it' to, as i am sure You are already aware..
::snuggles onto Your shoulders::
dinah
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