So, I've been putting off writing this, because I'm not sure I want the entire world to hear about this, but also, I know that if I stay quite it's even worse
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Write down as much as you can - time and dates included. Keep a notebook. I consult on this for a living and trust me, having a record when he doesn't will help when you do say something. Because, you really should say something.
This is about power-dynamics. And it doesn't matter how capable you feel, or how mature, or how able it to handle it on your own. The bottom line is, he's your teacher. And you are his student. You aren't the first but you can be the last he's tried this with.
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Write down as much as you can - time and dates included. Keep a notebook. I consult on this for a living and trust me, having a record when he doesn't will help when you do say something. Because, you really should say something.
This is about power-dynamics. And it doesn't matter how capable you feel, or how mature, or how able it to handle it on your own. The bottom line is, he's your teacher. And you are his student. You aren't the first but you can be the last he's tried this with.
Feel free to email me about this any time.
~J.
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