Baby!

[violetmagenta]

I must start this entry with the excellent news that my cousin has had her baby. She had a little boy named Archie weighing 8lb 4oz at 4am this morning! Aaaaw! I'm excited about seeing him now

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[debsg]

Congrats to your cousin. I like the name Archie. :) Someone I know is within 2 weeks of their due date too so baby-ness. The world is going baby. Gaa-gaa.

Yes, don't you just love paranoid feelings?

[violetmagenta]

:D Yeah, I think it's a cute name. Though my mam has started calling him 'little Archie' and I just know he's gonna be stuck with the prefix 'little' now even when he gets to 18! Ahahaha. Yey for new babyness. :)

And yep, paranoid feelings are in full swing, moreso since I actually wrote that entry. :S

[midnightschilde]

ooh no, paranoia is such an awful thing. I get that all too much.

[violetmagenta]

I rarely get it, which somehow makes me more paranoid. Like 'OMG! *I'm* paranoid, that means there's something to be paranoid about!'

[the_blue_cat]

Just relax and chill. I know its hard to do when your feeling paranoid. At the end of the day try to put it out of your mind as there's nothing you can do about the feeling, so just try to forget it and keep busy. After all, if what you suspect does come to light whatever it is, is it really the end of the world?

Might be best to talk about it with Matt, explain how you feel and why you feel it. It's possibly just nothing, a miscommunication and you're getting worked up for nothing.

[violetmagenta]

Thank you *hugs* I know that you're right and there's nothing I can do. It probably is just a miscommunication, but the problem is that he manages to make even quite basic things sound like he's lying, so the thing I'm paranoid about just makes me moreso.

Plus I can't really talk to him about it cos it's either 100% innocent or 100% bad and I don't wanna look like I'm accusing him of something.

I probably sound like a crazy lady now.

[the_blue_cat]

You could just say to him "look, I'm feeling a little paranoid of..... because........ " don't do it accusingly, just say you're concerned and its making you feel paranoid. He should be understanding and considerate of your feelings. You're not accusing, or saying what he can and can't do, you just have feelings that need to be considered. Leaving it may make you feel even worse, it's always good to talk as soon as anything crops up in a relationship, everyone needs reassurance that everythings fine.

If however he over reacts defensively, that normally means that somethings up as you've only mentioned that something he's doing is making you feel uncomfortable and not acussing him of anything.

Hope this helps some.

[violetmagenta]

Thank you, yeah it does help. I think you're right, I'll try to talk to him about it and just say that I'm feeling a bit uncomfortable. His reaction probably will tell me whether I've got anything to worry about or not. :)