this really isn't any of my business... but what the HELL can she be suing you for?!?!?!?
another person on my f-list has an incredibly abusive ex who tracked her down after YEARS and tried to re-ruin her life, and when she filed a restraining order he tried to sue her (with a LOT of BS). her lj is chandara, (you might know her, she also goes by Dixie) and if you send her a message she'll probably have some good advice and can recommend her lawyer. but you should probably tell her i sent you :)
She suing me for money that she contributed to the relationship. In her defense, I did tell her that I would pay her back. I also told her that it was going to take a LONG time.
Well, she thinks that suing me will get it all to her. I don't think she realizes that she's going to spend money just so that she can wait longer and she's only guaranteed that I don't make paying her back a priority until the court makes me.
I don't really need advice. She seems to be lashing out because deep down, she's a petulant child throwing a hissy fit.
oooooooooooooooooooooooooh. um. i got nuthin - but then again, when i got divorced i left with my clothes and books. period.
i am very very sorry that you are having these problems. you seemed very unhappy and i thought it would help. i like helping people, especially people i like (really. making people happy creates almost as many endorphins for me as sex :p). the offer of advice was unasked for. i am sorry if it came across as rude or pushy, i didn't mean it to be.
but if you need to talk, or get away from everything and NOT talk, or anything i can do, please let me know :)
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another person on my f-list has an incredibly abusive ex who tracked her down after YEARS and tried to re-ruin her life, and when she filed a restraining order he tried to sue her (with a LOT of BS). her lj is chandara, (you might know her, she also goes by Dixie) and if you send her a message she'll probably have some good advice and can recommend her lawyer. but you should probably tell her i sent you :)
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Well, she thinks that suing me will get it all to her. I don't think she realizes that she's going to spend money just so that she can wait longer and she's only guaranteed that I don't make paying her back a priority until the court makes me.
I don't really need advice. She seems to be lashing out because deep down, she's a petulant child throwing a hissy fit.
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i am very very sorry that you are having these problems. you seemed very unhappy and i thought it would help. i like helping people, especially people i like (really. making people happy creates almost as many endorphins for me as sex :p). the offer of advice was unasked for. i am sorry if it came across as rude or pushy, i didn't mean it to be.
but if you need to talk, or get away from everything and NOT talk, or anything i can do, please let me know :)
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