Decisions, decisions

[virtualmel]

Should I tell someone like it is, risking making things worse?
Or, keep my mouth shut, and hope things get better on their own?

Comments

[kathymonster]

Depends on the potential target. If it's a boss, in this economy, I'd probably wait and see what happens. If it's the ex, by all means, blast away. If it's none of the above, weigh the potential drama and see if it's worth stirring things up...*)

*hugs*

~K~

[bad_in_plaid]

I agree. I wish I had more input.

[virtualmel]

Without giving too much away...
Not my boss, not the ex.
Kinda business partner.

[miribella]

business partner = tell it like it is, cause it's risking the business if things go too far.

[pbsweetheart]

Tell it like it is if money is involved.

[kathymonster]

Ditto, can't take too many chances especially if money is involved.

Hope all this helps, sweetie.

~K~

[perkal]

truth hurts .. but a needed hurt

[handleman]

THe rule I use is "true, but not helpful." The truth is usually what it is. The question is whether or not it is useful. If it is there, but not going to do any good, what is the point? If telling someone the truth is not going to change anything, it is only worth the "I told you so" later. Otherwise, why bother?