Dropped a point but its probably good in the long run.........

[viscera_despere]

I feel like the divorce made me lose a humanity or at least a morality. Everything feels harsher and crueler and sharper. I accept that people are apathetic and focus more on working around it than trying to inject some empathy into them. I suppose in some ways its a good thing. I feel like my values have shifted dramatically though not necessarily

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[musae]

Hi,

I think that perhaps we were not on the best terms when communication between us stopped. This post isn't locked, but you are on my friends list so it shows up. Do you want me to have access to these? If not, feel free to un-friend me. I won't be offended.

friends

[viscera_despere]

Actually, I had already un-friended you before I had made this post. I had half-thought about locking it as friends but had to rush off to do things at the end of it. This particular post wasn't super sensitive as far as people having access to it, so it doesn't really matter

Re: friends

[musae]

I'm sorry that you felt as if people were manipulating you, and I'm sorry that you were hurt as a result of the actions (or non-action, as the case may be) of people that evening.

Your definition of friend is not inaccurate I would say, and I'm sorry that I failed to provide the support needed at that time. Saying that I had some things of my own going on at that time that I chose not to address with many people at all will not make it better, and is not an excuse, only perhaps some insight into my behavior that evening.

I left SCM behind, and I would like to leave any negativity (well, that I carry at least- I can't control anyone else's behavior) behind as well. I hope that things continue to progress positively for you, and that your healing process ultimately takes you to where and who you want to be.

I have unfriended you as it seems appropriate, but certainly without malice.