I completely understand...in my older-and-[not necessarily]wiser state, I think that many friendships move in phases, waxing and waning, much like the moon. it helps in the meantime to think that, at least.
"i do enjoy friends, but is a friend your friend when they make no attempt on there own to communicate with you...or ever hang out? that sucks because yeah you have that "were friends" status... but its kinda like booking an appointment with them anytime you wanna hang loose"
i would argue that if that is the case, they're not, and if they say are, it's either because a.) they think that is ok behavior cause they have a warped sense of friendship and confuse fake acquaintances for friends, b.) they're too stupid to realize they're ignoring you and not being a friend, or c.) they're trying to get something out of it
but don't try thinking about it or saying something, cause caring is NOT cool
Merppy Do!stranded_sosJanuary 24 2005, 19:46:34 UTC
Checklist/Reminders:
1.i've been requesting a painting for the past...oh...all of high school.so don't drink and do that instead
2.and find friends that aren't those people you're talking about
3.if you ever get into a financial bind...and it's just bad, don't hesitate to ask for some cizash. i'm not a rich pompus ass oozing with money, but i think you paying your rent is more important then me buying another pair of pizza shoes.
4.go to some shows, they always make me feel better
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make no attempt on there own to communicate with you...or ever hang out?
that sucks because yeah you have that "were friends" status...
but its kinda like booking an appointment with them anytime you wanna hang loose"
i would argue that if that is the case, they're not, and if they say are, it's either because a.) they think that is ok behavior cause they have a warped sense of friendship and confuse fake acquaintances for friends, b.) they're too stupid to realize they're ignoring you and not being a friend, or c.) they're trying to get something out of it
but don't try thinking about it or saying something, cause caring is NOT cool
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1.i've been requesting a painting for the past...oh...all of high school.so don't drink and do that instead
2.and find friends that aren't those people you're talking about
3.if you ever get into a financial bind...and it's just bad, don't hesitate to ask for some cizash. i'm not a rich pompus ass oozing with money, but i think you paying your rent is more important then me buying another pair of pizza shoes.
4.go to some shows, they always make me feel better
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