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[vivi3290]

Okay... well... I was talkn to this guy for sometime... for about 3 months... we just stop talkn about 3 weeks ago... and now he has g-f! At first I was pissed... how could be with some chick in such a short period of time?? We dated for 3 months and we never got together? Well we finally talked last night (he came over) he said was never talkn to

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[chinoe]

A kiss is sexual,

That's first base!

[vivi3290]

lol... hmm yeah a kiss is bad.... I KNOW... but he dont pass first base!

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[chinoe]

Shit,

Don't get me kissin' you,

you'll end up pregnant!

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[vivi3290]

right! lol

[simplybliss]

I think it's cool that you two remain friends, but if he keeps making advances at you....You gotta let him know that it's not fair to you or his girlfriend. It's one or the other. If he really likes her, then he'll back off. BUT if he's digging you more than her, then he needs to decided if he wants to further his relationship with this new girl or take a chance with you instead.

It seems as if he's confused.

Just don't let him play you for a fool =)

[vivi3290]

I agree with everything u said.... I think he might be confused.... but I will give it a few days and see what he wants... If not we will only be friends.... I cant let him be a dog and be apart of it... I kinda felt bad for the girl cause I know I would hate for anyone to do some shit to me... I do care about this guy.... but I am not gonna push him to make a choice....

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[sxyprincss]

I agree with Jess
plus he's got the best of both worlds now, he's gettin ass from his chick (assuming) and he's still kickin it with you.
But what if he's with her for a month, or 6 months, or a year.
Just put yourself in her shoes and think if you would like it.
I know it's not your concern, but you don't need the drama the situation could bring, ya know?
Anyway, good luck darlin. You're a smart girl so I'm sure you'll do fine :)

[all_eyez_on_me]

DAWN SHOULD JUST HOOK US UP

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[sxyprincss]

LOL
let us know when you're out this way!!!

[elchino]

KISS HIM, FUCK HIM, GET HIM 2 BUY U SHIT, IT DOESN'T MATTER...THE FACT THAT HE'S CHEATING ON HIS BITCH IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM...HAVE YOUR FUN...JUST DON'T BE STUPID AND GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED

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[vivi3290]

LOL... I AGREE.... BUT NO SEX.... WHEN I HAVE SEX... ITS CAUSE I ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT THE PERSON.... I PLAN TO JUST CHILL AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS....

[tofersmomma]

I think, honestly, a situation like this can only lead to trouble. :\

I mean the thing that sticks out most in my mind is why did he bother making it official with this other girl and yet he still wants to kiss you...? It just doesn't make sense.

And unfortunately, if you let him get away with that behaviour he will truly be a man who thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.

If you can make it a strictly friends-only thing, then heck go for it. But I don't believe that's how it will end up.

Sorry chica! But good luck...

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[vivi3290]

hey.... yeah I agree.... I know its not right and I should be better! I think I will be ONLY freinds and stick with it.... I would not want to be his gf and be cheated on.......