Hello mam. I was reading up a little on you and saw this. what is wrong with your brother? whatever the case I hope he turn out ok. As for you seeing someone, well You are right. YOu just have to go with the flow and see what God gives you. Just go with the flow and if things make you happy then go with it right? Follow your heart and stay true to yourself and it does not matter who you get with or end up with.
It might sound crazy, but have you ever thought of flippin' the script on your brother?
When my pops first thought I was smoking cigarettes as a kid, he singled me out and shoved a smoke in my mouth and forced me to smoke it in front of him, even after I threw up. Served as a deterrent until a couple months ago..
..Maybe get him loaded to his gills, and keep forcing the shit down his throat and don't leave his face until he gives up or passes out; giving up is a conscious effort, and passing out will let you take him to the doc and maybe get him on some narcanol or other step-drug.
He's your blood, been so since he was born, and once he's gone you can't have him back, no matter how much you may regret.
I don't know about that.... shit I dont even see him anymore... it's been over a month since I last saw him! I dont know where he lives... he is not working.... his cell is not on anymore... it really sux! thanks for always being positive.... I wish I could do more but I dont know.... he wont even talk to me... he is not the same person... =(
Vivi, since you don't know where he is or anything, it's really out of yours or anyone's hands. Just pray or hope or whatever it is you do that he is safe and one day will look for help, or see the light. You could always try to find him and all that, but you can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped, just like you can't find someone that doesn't want to be found. I know that sounds messed up, but he knows you and your family are there for him and worry about him. He's not in the right state of mind, and it must really hurt you. ♥ Not much else I can say other than I know you have a strong support group with your friends, and any of them are there for you if you ever need them :)
As far as the boy situation, things always happen for a reason, and rarely do we end up with the "type" that we always saw ourselves with. As long as he respects you and treats you good, then he is deserving of your time and your heart :)
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My sisters husband last name is also Martinez lol.
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As for you seeing someone, well You are right. YOu just have to go with the flow and see what God gives you. Just go with the flow and if things make you happy then go with it right? Follow your heart and stay true to yourself and it does not matter who you get with or end up with.
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But yeah WEIRD!!
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When my pops first thought I was smoking cigarettes as a kid, he singled me out and shoved a smoke in my mouth and forced me to smoke it in front of him, even after I threw up. Served as a deterrent until a couple months ago..
..Maybe get him loaded to his gills, and keep forcing the shit down his throat and don't leave his face until he gives up or passes out; giving up is a conscious effort, and passing out will let you take him to the doc and maybe get him on some narcanol or other step-drug.
He's your blood, been so since he was born, and once he's gone you can't have him back, no matter how much you may regret.
I've seen the light, he can too!
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You could always try to find him and all that, but you can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped, just like you can't find someone that doesn't want to be found. I know that sounds messed up, but he knows you and your family are there for him and worry about him. He's not in the right state of mind, and it must really hurt you. ♥ Not much else I can say other than I know you have a strong support group with your friends, and any of them are there for you if you ever need them :)
As far as the boy situation, things always happen for a reason, and rarely do we end up with the "type" that we always saw ourselves with. As long as he respects you and treats you good, then he is deserving of your time and your heart :)
Good Luck with it all hun :)
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