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Feb 23, 2005 09:54

so, in gender class, chris posed a question for us. he described a person that could be excited and aroused by the sight of others(opposite sex if hetero, same if homo), but when the opportunity came for actual contact or a relationship to form this person couldn't function, couldn't handle it, and for some reason or other never made it past that ( Read more... )

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lifeisjustasong February 24 2005, 05:01:07 UTC
I definitely don't think you should give it up to the first guy you become involved with.... but I do think you need to be less guarded. Relationships hurt but its experience, its good for you. It helps you with new relationships. I dunno I'm a little drunk..... You make a good point with the regret theory though. I wouldn't use that too much though. It's just a psychological theory......

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vixenluvsyou February 27 2005, 16:23:11 UTC
you're right i am guarded but regret has always been something i concern myself with.

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last time i rolled the dice there flashed the eyes of a snake. standard_issue_ February 26 2005, 00:44:36 UTC
you should wait for what you want Ainsley. you deserve to have that and so much more. don't give in if you don't want to. you may not want to do anything until you find "the one" which is honorable and may be right for you..but you're young. very young. you shouldn't be so jaded.

Can't shake this fever from my mind
It burns away all that has passed
And draws me to his side
"A direct hit" the cupid smiles...
Wounded, I fall into delirium
And I know... my heart's no longer mine

you'll find it ainsley.

i miss you,
brandon

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Re: last time i rolled the dice there flashed the eyes of a snake. vixenluvsyou February 27 2005, 16:24:33 UTC
you make me so happy and yet so sad. wish you were here.

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No! anonymous April 7 2005, 17:24:59 UTC
Never give up your virginity! Well, until you are positive! Don't ever feel pressured. U get props from me for keeping it for this long. Might as well go till marriage. Besides, you have seen the negative aspects of it. In my honest opinion, the fact that you have waited this long makes you just as strong and if not stronger. Its people like you that find true love. Trust me Ains, losing it for the sake of losing it is only going to make you feel less of a person. Just wait... Melissa Lavina

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don't give into the temptation anonymous April 24 2005, 23:16:03 UTC
to me virginity is important. And i believe that means the same thing to you. You want to feel that someone understand you, and care for you. Not just want to bang you and then say maybe its wrong months later. You've seen so much, you learned so much from others. Your knowledge is what's preventing you from coming through at certain time. Which is an ok thing.

Trust me, when the time is right. You will be able to carry through.

Don't worry so much. I am like you. I still carry the burden, but yet not worry about it. I think it is something that its worth waiting for. You'll have more fun when the momment is right.

You have so many things that is going on for you right now in your life. Worry about your friendship with others, because through that is where you will find the one and only.

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Re: don't give into the temptation vixenluvsyou April 25 2005, 03:20:19 UTC
i appreciate the insight and i know you're right that was just one of those days when i needed to be reminded of what i really want.

by the way who is this? i'd much rather take advice from a friend than a stranger.

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i am a friend anonymous April 26 2005, 00:19:31 UTC
I am a friend but i rather remain anonymous for now. I think we can help each other through anominity then through knowing each other.

But if you don't feel like reading from an anonymous friend. I can stop.

Good luck with everything

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Re: i am a friend vixenluvsyou April 26 2005, 03:18:14 UTC
I don't mind reading from an anonymous friend. You just have to admit it's kinda weird. I'll keep an open mind for now.

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