Comments | vladmira: Damn August

vladmira

Damn August

Aug 14, 2005 21:14

I decided to call off the wedding shower for next Sat. Some of you know why. Yes am I having second thoughts about the wedding. Everything is so complex. I told myself I only want to get married once....we shall see. Joe is always working nights 5 days a week from 6pm to 2 am. I see him Sundays after 8 pm and mondays after 8:00. I work ( Read more... )

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vladmira August 15 2005, 23:31:48 UTC

Thanks sweetie....I just want to make sure I am marrying my match. Sometimes I wonder if our interests are the same anymore...sigh

sparklypelt August 15 2005, 23:36:23 UTC

Hmmm...

Well that doesn't seem too tough to sort out. If you're giving more than you are getting the relationship is unbalanced and will in all likelyhood have serious problems. Don't rush in. Take your time and see if you can get the finances/together time more balanced before you sign that piece of paper. Look before you leap and all that. But...you probably already knew all that and I've said nothing that hadn't already crossed your mind. *facepalm* Well good intentions throughout your way.

vladmira August 17 2005, 03:02:22 UTC

You know....i saw someone from my past....but I realized..he has no personality. Joe is working 60 hours a week to help,,,,,he could be home being lazy....I need to give him credit and stop picking at his flesh.

sparklypelt August 18 2005, 21:11:11 UTC

Maybe you're just nervous then?

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vladmira August 17 2005, 03:00:06 UTC

thanks....
I am going through the pre marital jitter thing. I truly think the shower was poorly planned and decided to call it off. Too many people that are dear to me already had plans. My maid of honor sent the invites just last week for the shower this Sat. All e-invites...which i thought was pretty rude. So the wedding is still on and I think Nikki and Melody wanted to do something else later. I know is the type of guy that will do anything to make this work. Yesterday he cleaned the house and bought me a present. I know he's the type of guy to run himself in circles trying. I'm just stressed because getting into a house is a big commitment and the way the economy is going...makes you wonder where you will be in 20 years.