"I need to get back into a groove of just kinda letting things happen opposed to pushing for em....Look at everything as a friendship, and then perhaps if anything further comes along it'll be played by ear."
you don't push for things. you just "let them happen" all the time...which ends up meaning that nothing happens. and if you look at everything as a friendship and then let it see where it goes, it won't go anywhere because you're not trying if you only see the person as a friend...there's no motivation/obligation. when you just let things go the way you do, the other person will think you don't care and won't want to have anything to do with you.
if you really love this girl like you say you do (so much that it makes you miserable), then why just drop everything? why wouldn't you put all your effort into making it work with her? i know why...cause you tell yourself it can't work. you self destruct any form of relationship you have with the opposite sex. you shouldn't.
no, i have. hindsight is a bitch...this i have learned. it does make you more cautious, but it's not fair when the other person's heart gets drug around due to fears and insecurities either.
"i've realized that i've been in love with someone for quite sometime and there's absolutely nothing i can do about it. It makes me miserable half the time. I've kept my mind off of her for the past month or two which is good and i'm trying to totally eliminate speaking with her all together. it just seems better that way i guess"
GEEZ!!!!! I HOPE SHE DOESN'T READ THAT...it could really hurt a girl......
i'm almost certain she's aware of my feelings and she already has a boyfriend. it was just me being pathetic and wanting something i cant have.. hence why i'm letting it go. im just being stupid.
and kelly, you're somewhat correct. however i haven't just been letting things go.. any girl i'd be seeing would be with intentions of having a relationship with.. and thats potentially why it selfdestructs..
now if i remove any expectation, things might happen.
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you don't push for things. you just "let them happen" all the time...which ends up meaning that nothing happens. and if you look at everything as a friendship and then let it see where it goes, it won't go anywhere because you're not trying if you only see the person as a friend...there's no motivation/obligation. when you just let things go the way you do, the other person will think you don't care and won't want to have anything to do with you.
if you really love this girl like you say you do (so much that it makes you miserable), then why just drop everything? why wouldn't you put all your effort into making it work with her? i know why...cause you tell yourself it can't work. you self destruct any form of relationship you have with the opposite sex. you shouldn't.
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GEEZ!!!!! I HOPE SHE DOESN'T READ THAT...it could really hurt a girl......
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and kelly, you're somewhat correct. however i haven't just been letting things go.. any girl i'd be seeing would be with intentions of having a relationship with.. and thats potentially why it selfdestructs..
now if i remove any expectation, things might happen.
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