i just need to get this out. i'm sitting here during ushering (thank god may let me get my laptop to do work. cider house is a three hour long play, so i have plenty of downtime) and i felt like i needed to write this
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I've been there babe. And you know what? You guys can work through it. Sometimes they just need a kick in the ass to get them to wake the hell up.
And I'm proud of you for knowing that you deserve good things and that you deserve what you're giving him. You don't know how many girls will give and give and never see that they need some things too.
Tell Brook that I said to wake up and give my girl EVEN MORE than she deserves, because she's one of the most beautiful, talented, and smart girls I've ever met in my life. (which is why I used to hate her, hehehe) She's an amazing person, treat her as such.
Chin up sweetheart, sometimes relationships seem to cause more stress than they're worth, but when you can work through that shit is when you know that you've got one of the best ones.
I love you Steph. I'll be in the 814 in a month, will you be home? Wes and I are having a big ol' party to make sure we see everyone we want to see, if you'll be in town, I'll keep you updated. I'd love to see you!
me again, replying to my own comment because I forgot to say this on the last one.
What is absolutely important... is that YOU do what you need to to ensure that you are happy and healthy. If that means taking a break to figure some stuff out, that's ok. Just make sure you are thinking of yourself, because in the long run, you're the best friend you'll ever have.
buddy! i know how you feel in a different way. i don't think brook is ANYTHING like george was (i.e. an asshole), but i do know the feeling of being unappreciated and just giving SO much and getting less than that in return. it's so awesome that like bri said, you CAN recognize that. i never did until after the fact. i didn't work through it, but i'm glad because in THIS case, it wasn't worth it. but i think it's worth it for you and brook. work through it. light a fire under his ass. make him see that you're worth more than that. show him what his future would be like without you. you both know he'd be crushed without you. let him know that someone that he intends to spend his life with should be treated better than that. with more respect and dignity and care. you can do it! good luck buddy!
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And I'm proud of you for knowing that you deserve good things and that you deserve what you're giving him. You don't know how many girls will give and give and never see that they need some things too.
Tell Brook that I said to wake up and give my girl EVEN MORE than she deserves, because she's one of the most beautiful, talented, and smart girls I've ever met in my life. (which is why I used to hate her, hehehe) She's an amazing person, treat her as such.
Chin up sweetheart, sometimes relationships seem to cause more stress than they're worth, but when you can work through that shit is when you know that you've got one of the best ones.
I love you Steph. I'll be in the 814 in a month, will you be home? Wes and I are having a big ol' party to make sure we see everyone we want to see, if you'll be in town, I'll keep you updated. I'd love to see you!
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What is absolutely important... is that YOU do what you need to to ensure that you are happy and healthy. If that means taking a break to figure some stuff out, that's ok. Just make sure you are thinking of yourself, because in the long run, you're the best friend you'll ever have.
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