Confused

[von_bitch16]

So I have a wonderful boyfriend... but i'm still missing my ex.. not to mention one of my roomates is now "dating" him even though she is a "lesbian"... I don't know what to do. I'm trying to keep my emotions at bay, but its getting harder and harder.. espically when we all hang out and things are awkward.. what do I do.. I'm so confuesd... anyone

Comments

[kernelpickle]

You're in no way obligated to "Hang out" with anybody you're not comfortable with it, and your roommate is either going to be an adult and understand that you're not ready to be around him... OR she's going to be a bitch about it. I don't think it would be entirely unreasonable to avoid awkward situations, you're being pretty cool about it in the first place so far seeing as you're not bitching at her for dating your ex, which you are entitled to do since she's your "friend" and under the friend commandments "thou shalt not date or fornicate with a friend's ex".

My advice, privately tell her, "you're my friend and I'm not very comfortable around you and my ex, but I'm going to be adult about this and not have a fit that you're dating. All that I ask is you don't put me into awkward situations and let me know in advance if he is going to be around so I can make other plans."

Good luck!

[shellbell2002]

coley,
you should go on a road trip with me and we can take you mind of it, but i also agree with telling her that it makes you uncomfortable
you should call me right away babe!!!
Love you!!