First impressions and body language in communication

[vt_skorpio]

This entry has been motivated by a conversation I've had with a good friend of mine last Friday night. We were sitting at the bar and discussing our various friendships, and how going to university, choosing different paths in life and all changed those. Then, he went on to say that he was thankful that I always accepted hanging out, whenever he

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[xuenay]

I'm reading your entry and commenting on it despite knowing that you hate me. :( Nah, just making the most obvious joke imaginable

[vt_skorpio]

Hahaha! I enjoyed the joke, even though I was absolutely certain somebody would make it.

Hmm, that's one shitty situation you were in...Mine is not that bad, I mean, those people rarely are directly related to me, they're linked through other people...but first-hand friends? Whoa. Wouldn't have wanted to be in your shoes back then.

I don't think this would happen to me at the moment, since I have a relatively small circle of friends. Friends, here, being real, serious longtime friends, guys or girls I consider like brothers or sisters. I bet this happened to you with "new" friends, right? People you've known for less than a year or two...cuz otherwise, man, it must've screwed you up real bad!

[xuenay]

Sort of. Actually, I should clarify a bit, since the cases were somewhat different. The first one was an online friend, and I'm not sure for how long I knew her - probably less than two years though, yeah. Actually she didn't exactly hate me, but there was some topics that I thought were cool and that we talked about a bunch and she acted real interested in them, but later on I heard that she thought they were pretty much boring as hell. I never really figured out why she just didn't tell me outright that she didn't care for those topics