Rude comment

Jun 17, 2009 09:20

This morning I received a rude anonymous post to a response I made here on LJ.  It seemed pointless and like a hard kick to the ribs especially since I'm already in a pretty emotionally vulnerable kind of place these days.

Since it was anonymous, it seemed particularly useless in making a point that was viable. It's possible the person is someone I ( Read more... )

rude remark on lj

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vertamae June 17 2009, 15:52:09 UTC
It totally wasn't me, I haven't been on LJ very regularly lately, but I am sorry to see you go. Oh well, take care. :(

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 16:01:59 UTC
I will be totally happy to put you back on my Friends list.. I just wasn't sure if you wanted to stay on since we hadn't connected lately.

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vertamae June 17 2009, 17:38:58 UTC
Just reading this... I sent you a private message already. It's all good. :)

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theperipheral June 17 2009, 16:25:17 UTC
They probably thought you were trying to 'spam' the community. Posting it anonymously is pretty cowardly though. They could have just pointed it out in a constructive way.

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 16:41:37 UTC
I agree...

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shimmerdance June 17 2009, 17:36:57 UTC
I've come in and out of being public over the last 6 months, as I've felt healthy and safe. I know the need to retrench. That just sucks that someone would be so cowardly and small. I'm sorry.

xo

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 17:54:25 UTC
Thank you dearie.. no biggie... just a small person with not enough meaningful to do in their life so trying to bug me.

I go in & out, too... have been in a 'needing to write' place lately... so more out. This won't stop me from being me. =)

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shimmerdance June 17 2009, 18:08:32 UTC
that's my girl!

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 19:18:13 UTC
*o*

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rhiannons_rose June 17 2009, 19:50:11 UTC
Hello. I couldn't believe the comment that person made. It was completely uncalled for. Your responses were calm and appropriate.

I recently also had someone post rudely to something I posted in naturalskin. I ignored it, but contacted the mod. I never heard anything back. Obviously, the maintainer doesn't care about keeping the community civil.

My best to you.

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goremeister_666 June 17 2009, 20:58:01 UTC
i 100% agree.

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 22:49:21 UTC
wow... nice of you* thank you~

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 22:47:36 UTC
Wow... what a very kind and supportive note! Thank you so much for the validation that I replied ok. I felt shaky in how I handled it.

I'm sorry you got blasted, too. It feels awful, doesn't it?... when you expect friendliness the unexpected hostility feels so violating. Anyway, I thought to contact the mod (but didn't know how really) so I guess it wouldn't have helped much anyway.

And my best back to you!

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sahlah June 17 2009, 20:03:18 UTC
They're a booger.

You're a love.

End of story.

*hugs*

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walksbeauty June 17 2009, 22:48:35 UTC
hahahahaha so cute. made me LOL... Thank you! hahahaha

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