its not that you say it wrong but sometimes tend to get judgemental and you know that. you dont have to appologize for your feelings but you may want to evaluate them. As much as you love others and want to ensure them in heaven, you cant decide waht is right for others the same way you cant decide what is wrong for them either. everyone goes through different things and has a different life and different feelings and you cant tell anyone what they should or shouldnt be doing bc you are not them. you know? i know it comes from a good place sweetie, but sometimes you have to let people go through things for themselves and in the end its not you or anyone who saves them. its between god and them so you have to trust gods abilities and accept peoples choices- even the ones you dont agree with- bc you love them so much.
Well yea. The one thing I was talking about in my past entry with this one person is that they came to me for help and then did not let me offer suggestions to what they could do to avoid situations they did not want to be in. Thing is, they lied to me since they really did want to do the things they had told me they did not want to do.
wow this person is totally on, and this is everything i would have said to you, if i was that person you hurt....you need to let that person make their own decisions and let them live for themselves. Just like christianajoi08 said. If you really loved that person, you'd just be there for them when they want to come back to you. Don't chase them down and beat them over the head with a bible or anything. But just be there for them. and tell them that you always be there for them when needed. Wow after rereading what christianajoi08 said again, they are so entirely right and you should really keep in touch with that friend.
Re: i entirely agreedunkingirlJune 7 2005, 20:25:46 UTC
i totally agree with christianajoi08, but if you are asking for someone's help and advice about a situation, then you should at least respect the person for giving their advice and their time to help you make right decisions....especially if this person is a christian....then their advice and help is coming from God and Scripture....so you, as the person asking for help, shouldnt be judgemental about the person who is giving the help, but take it into consideration, even if you dont act on their advice. (this is in response to the anonymous, not you ian)
i think i started something lol.christianajoi08June 9 2005, 12:48:29 UTC
i would like to clear up that i am not the person who was asking for help. and i also wasnt referring to the situation with that person, only to the general one about the journal entries and such. i have known ian since fourth grade and i know he is a great guy with an amazing heart. i love you sweetie, after all i am your black girlfriend so i have to. tee hee hee jk. i know you mean well and just want whats best so for that i am grateful and apreciative of your efforts with our sometimes crazy friends and in this crazy life. talk to you soon dear.
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