Its really no easier...

Aug 25, 2010 09:02

being the friend that leaves as opposed to the friend who is left behind. Its almost worse. You're the one inflicting the pain and it double hurts because you know you're causing pain to people you care about. My years of jealousy at the person in this position were misplaced. I'm sorry I was mad at them because they were leaving me ( Read more... )

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quantum_meruit August 25 2010, 22:24:17 UTC
Oh, honey. It's really sweet that you care. She'll be okay. I can promise that.

You'll be back here soon enough -- too soon. You need to enjoy your time there while you have it. Please don't feel guilty for leaving people behind. It's no way to live. We'll miss you, but it's worth it. We'd all rather you go, given the chance to go.

I just got back on campus -- so I'm actually (sort of) in the area for once! Super good luck getting there. Be safe. Be vigilant. But don't be nervous.

I'll be waiting to hear from you, but I know it'll be fine. After all, you're leaving on my grandmother's birthday, so it must be auspicious (only I would use that word in an LJ comment).

I love you.
-M

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watermelon_42 August 25 2010, 23:09:48 UTC
All's better now..sorta. Eeek lots of stress now...leaving tomorrow.
And yay for you being in the area!
Not that this helps me any...but oh wells.
I will have a good time, I just reserve my right to occasionally freak out at my lj...thus why I separated lj and travel blog.
Happy Wednesday!

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