Comments | watts1987: It was bound to happen...

watts1987

It was bound to happen...

Sep 26, 2006 00:13

I finally made myself leave the apartment yesterday afternoon because I hadn't been able to eat much of the day. (the roommies were home and CUJO was out and about, so no cooking for me) I grabbed some food at Boston Market, because it's mildly healthy and then ran over to CVS to put some things on a giftcard that I got for transferring a ( Read more... )

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Dealing stonegargoyle September 26 2006, 11:44:21 UTC

It's going to be hard. Dealing with losing someone that close to you always is, but for those of us with his ink it will make it that much harder. Every time someone asks where or who did the work, it reminds us. Don't forget that we are here for you. Sue, Dan, myself... and many more are here for you as you have and will be for us.

Re: Dealing watts1987 September 28 2006, 20:22:00 UTC

Kitty's is there for us too... ;o)

Thanks

panzerbane01 September 26 2006, 16:25:57 UTC

This is gonna seem out of the blue, fucked up and probably Harsh ( ... )

kimboosan September 28 2006, 00:53:24 UTC

A little harsh, perhaps at this early stage; but not so off topic.

What is important is not the future where the person you love is dead, but the past where he is always alive. I spent a long time cursing the phrase "celebrate their lives, not their death" before I realized that doing so is the only way to mourn without being self destructive.

For me, every time I see Jim's ink on my arm I try to think, "I'm so DAMN lucky I got to meet him when I did."

PS
I'm not sure I know you, Panzerbane, but I am sorry to hear about your friend's battle with cancer. That is a harsh way to go. My sincere sympathies there. Sounds like you remember the best of him.

panzerbane01 September 28 2006, 02:25:00 UTC

As I said, Not a friend, but a well known aquaintance that circumstances and drama prevented me from knowing any better. He was a good guy and it seemed relevant to speak of.