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Mar 06, 2003 23:49

POLL:

is kissing for the sake of kissing without any preoccupations ok with you?

please answer and justify in comments.

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this is a somewhat broader thought on sexuality in general redskyatnight March 6 2003, 21:13:43 UTC

yes. as long as both people understand that's what it is, why not? relationships are all well and good, if people want that. that said, there's something to be said for just wanting to kiss someone (or more), and knowing that they want it, and both of you just doing it. there's no real reason we should have to act out certain preset roles in order to physically enjoy ourselves and each other. we're young, this is our time to sow our wild oats and experiment before settling down (or not). we've all been socialized with a lot of restrictions and hangups that can prevent sexuality from being a healthy, empowering and enjoyable experience. sexuality should be about fun and playing, not rules and chores.

Re: this is a somewhat broader thought on sexuality in general blinkpatient182 March 6 2003, 21:38:55 UTC

what he said.

Re: this is a somewhat broader thought on sexuality in general we_are_all_dead March 6 2003, 21:42:48 UTC

be on aim.

keara507 March 7 2003, 04:18:00 UTC

what she said he said.

<3

bah! dorkiam March 7 2003, 01:53:30 UTC

what about fooling around and not kissing at all? is it me or does that not just take away from any of the meaning to it. whether or not it is mutually about relationship... there is still a closer bond when kissing is involved. personally i just like kissing... i'd rather just cuddle and kiss than fool around and not kiss... especially when the person has pouty lips!!!!

anywho ed i love you.
.xo.
jessi

Re: bah! kaylabear March 7 2003, 22:36:55 UTC

prostitutes don't kiss on the mouth. I'm just saying...

-Kayla

ps- hi ed.

sarah5910 March 7 2003, 06:37:57 UTC

As long as there's a talk of somesort before it happens and there's a conclusion made that you DON'T have to "go ask her out" or you 2 aren't going to "hook up" afterwards, then sure why not?

<3

black_as_night March 7 2003, 07:29:33 UTC

who cares, if you want to do something do it. if both want to, and if one wants to they can do something by themselves.

daniellywelly March 7 2003, 07:58:20 UTC

answer: no.
justification: for the most part, people aren't going to be like, 'hey, i'm going to kiss you now and it's not going to mean anything to me. is that ok?' even if said people have this accord between them, it's inevitable that one person will start to have non-moderate feelings for the other person, especially if has happens on more than one occasion.

redskyatnight March 7 2003, 10:07:49 UTC

that's one argument people give, "it has to mean something". what if it just means, "i like you, right now. let's kiss, right now" ?

daniellywelly March 7 2003, 10:27:04 UTC

but if it comes to, 'i like you right now. let's kiss right now.' and it is simply for the sake of kissing someone, in a few days, the probability is high that it will come to, 'well, i don't like you anymore' or 'i didn't mean i liked you like that' or whatever is said to humor the other person. then again, my opinion on the matter is based on my own personal experiences. i'm just not one to kiss people who mean nothing to me, whether or not they reciprocate the feelings. i don't have it in me to kiss someone just for the sake of kissing.