holding on

[weanne]

        If there's one thing that I should've learned a long time ago, which am still too stubborn to learn, it would be to let go -- just let go.

I admit : I'm a very sentimental person, sometimes even more than what meets the eye. But yes, I have to admit it too, I can be careless and tactless, not knowing what I've actually done wrong.

Comments

some advice

[hartang_35]

Ey weanne :) I hope this helps. (based on experience)

Don't let go of that feeling that your friendship with him/her will return.

Instead, keep it in a box, snug it up and remember where you put it.

Go on living your life, enjoy its precious gifts and cherish the memories. Don't ever forget to live it to the fullest.

Then, when fate has decided that you two should ever come across again, slowly open the box that you've snug up.

Don't rush, take your time, be patient in reaching out to him/her.

Enjoy the time you have with him/her, enjoy "every second" while it lasts.

And then when it's time to go, keep that box again snugly and wait again, until you cross paths once more.

It takes some time to work this out and all the more painful. But they say, no pain no gain. I hope this could help you even in a small way. :)

[c2life]

to hold on or to let go?... a very difficult question indeed but its actually quite simple. you don't actually choose to hold on or let go...of memories, of relationships... its part of who you are to hold on or to let go. its not an actual decision, but the action you take just reflects the type of person you are and how affected you are. i myself have lost many friends, both to circumstance and time. i have wanted to let go, forget the memories i have, yet i cannot. its not part of who i am to let go, and so i cannot. remember though, that holding on does not mean you will be so much affected by your past. its called moving on. moving on is not letting go, simply moving forward with your life. moving to tomorrow. hope you'll be able to move on too. just remember your friends will be there for you. good luck:)
p.s. nandito lang rin ang quatro kids!! XD