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[weaselsdontfly]

Dear self:

You did good by sucking it up and asking if something was going on. Now you just need to develop the balls to ask him if that shit he's going through that he just doesn't know about is secret boy code for saying "the problem is you".

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[snogged]

*hugs*

[random_birth]

You can do it. If anything, confronting the issue now and possibly getting a no? Well, it would be amazing and might get him to let you try to help. If it's a yes? It's better to know sooner then later. Less hurt for you and him.

I hope it works out for the best for both of you.

i hate walking on eggshells.

[e_moondragon]

I did this w/ my ex bf, who treated me suddenly like an alien when he found out i needed surgery. :( At least he was honest that he "couldn't handle the health stuff" when I finally asked him if we were okay. I give him kudos for honesty, don't know too many ppl that can do that. i would rather have him be honest and end it than stick around if he's not feeling it anymore for whatever reason, even if the reason is shitty.

I'm soo much better off w/o him.
I jsut want someone to like me for me and not care about crap in my life i have no way of preventing or avoiding, and if they're not gonna do that, then fuck him!

boys are sooooo dumb. it's totally NOT you, trust me! :)

[ketene]

It's a scary thing but it feels better once it's out in the open. Boys are stupid!!!!!! It isn't you! Even if it's "you", it's not you. ♥ Promise!

[anonymous]

you know- you can ask- and you can get an answer- whatever that person chooses to tell you- but it will never be enough... will never be what you were looking for.

relationships are great- esp in the start- but in the end it all comes back to self- how we see ourselves and yet we are so desperate to see ourselves reflected in other people's eyes- as if that will give us what we want...

it's tough girl- and yeah- you got it tougher- not gonna dance around that... he may not be able to handle it- but he tried- and others will try- just as you will try- and you will meet some of them in the middle and bask in the greatness of it for as long as it lasts.

there's nothing wrong with wanting love- and i am so proud of you for being out there searching- open- and being strong.

and you know my marriage proposal holds strong... without expiration date! xoxoxooxoxxo lyn