I find that to be very well said. I think this concept of "rising above it" and being this super angel that looks down from a higher place of wisdom and just shakes her head, knowns all, and simply feels pity at their foolishness is a pipe dream.
I do something nice and people thank me like something nice is something they have never seen. Why is this? Are people such assholes that most people find seeing something nice a rarity? I guess so. People are assholes. That is reality. You should not be forced or expected to "rise above it" after all you have been through already. That is horse shit.
What you should be allowed is some damn respect. THAT is not too much to ask. Those teenagers behavior was abhorrent.
I will be devil's advocate and say I can see where he is coming from about how some people in this world will wish death on to morons like this when what they did, while not even remotely worth pity, isn't really something that should be punishable by death or a strong beating
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I can see where you're both coming from, and I can see that they deserve PITY in the pathetic sense. You've even spoken out about how you hate receiving pity, so think of it in that sense, not with the connotation of caring. Like "I feel sorry for you because your life is so fucking meaningless that you think this is fun to do to me." I see how that's applicable.
I'm also vehemently against bullying and I think they're all douchebags, and if I had the opportunity to brutally, emotionally hurt these two I really would go for it, because they deserve it. Fuck them! I'm so glad you were able to embarrass them--they'll probably take their fucking heads out of their asses and think first next time they have an opportunity to harass someone
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Yeah. My problem with Fred is that he enjoys playing the devil's advocate and riling people up, and it's impossible to tell when he sincerely means something and when he's being a passive aggressive asshole.
If I do send the message I would do it privately. I don't want to start drama on my facebook and have everyone who commented get spammed by the emails.
Maybe at the end say something like "I am aware that you occasionally play devil's advocate for the sake of seeing both sides of a situation or argument. If that is what this is, I am going to be completely honest: I do not appreciate having my natural reactions questioned at this point, especially by someone who does not understand what my reactions are."
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I do something nice and people thank me like something nice is something they have never seen. Why is this? Are people such assholes that most people find seeing something nice a rarity? I guess so. People are assholes. That is reality. You should not be forced or expected to "rise above it" after all you have been through already. That is horse shit.
What you should be allowed is some damn respect. THAT is not too much to ask. Those teenagers behavior was abhorrent.
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*hugs you tightly*
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I'm also vehemently against bullying and I think they're all douchebags, and if I had the opportunity to brutally, emotionally hurt these two I really would go for it, because they deserve it. Fuck them! I'm so glad you were able to embarrass them--they'll probably take their fucking heads out of their asses and think first next time they have an opportunity to harass someone ( ... )
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If I do send the message I would do it privately. I don't want to start drama on my facebook and have everyone who commented get spammed by the emails.
*hugs* You're the best.
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