Need some lovin'....

[wenzday]

So. Im not sure how long this post is going to be, but it's about time I write it. Ive been having a really hard time coping with Matt and I's separation. Ive tried just about everything to get by with the time. Ive talked to a Chaplain and it made me feel somewhat better, but I still feel so deperessed. My therapist is trying to help me cope with

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[motherevol]

Aw, Sweetie. I know this situation sucks, but if you've built your relationship like a chair it won't fall down. It's in the design that keeps it standing long after you rise up from it.

Even though he's not physically there with you, he's never left. You'll have to make due until things change and recognize that he's been in your heart the entire time. It may not mean much but it's something.

I wish you the best my friend.

*hughug*

[wenzday]

Thank you. What you have said means a lot. Im doing my best. Im still going to work hard to get him here. December will be a year that we have not lived with each other. :-( That's just too much. Especially when we've only been married for two. I will take what you have said to heart. Thank you again.

[cinzazul]

Glomp. Matt feels the same way. I've talked with him and he's going crazy. But you two won't be seperated forever. Abscence makes the hard grow fonder. Enjoy the experience for what it is. Sorry I'm not very helpful.

[wenzday]

I know that we won't be separated forever but a 1 1/2 yrs is a long time in a young marriage. Abscence can also destroy people. I know we are strong and are going to stay strong, but I still don't think that we should put ourselves purposefully through distance to "make our hearts fonder." We should be learning more about each other before we decide to start a family. The importance of the first few years of marriage is to have the arguements and the discussions to get to know one another. I pray he comes here soon. This is a good country with good people.