Yeah this makes sense, I was quite standoffish before coming to Uni as well, also the whole unsaying love thing, I totally grok you. But I kind of always wanted to be able to be more demonstrative, so I'm quite glad going away to Uni helped me break out of that :)
This makes sense - it also made me wonder if the reason I'm so very demonstrative and tactile is related to my own insecurity with regards to affection. Ponder ponder.
Also I am so very tempted to challenge you on the 'I love you' thing. Although I would be a terrible troll and probably make you laugh which kinda feels like cheating.
(You're the Captain of my guard...)
Weirdly, I generally find it easier to work out the hug-preferences of men than of women. I can normally tell if I can get away with hugging a guy or not, but women are harder.
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Also I am so very tempted to challenge you on the 'I love you' thing. Although I would be a terrible troll and probably make you laugh which kinda feels like cheating.
(You're the Captain of my guard...)
Weirdly, I generally find it easier to work out the hug-preferences of men than of women. I can normally tell if I can get away with hugging a guy or not, but women are harder.
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