which first?

[whatisinmymind]

do you believe in being friends first, and then progress to liking/loving the person because as you get to know the person, you start to like his/her character and personality

or

is it a case of like first, and then go on dates without being friends at all, and through these dates you get to know the person better..(something like love at first

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[anonymous]

Haha. You guys are funny. After reading everyone's comments, I still dont think Mell got an answer.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

p.s. I contributed to one of the above comments.

[whatisinmymind]

lol, i dont need an answer, i just wanna hear views! :)))

wah, i really very touched, you all really bother to share your views & type long long. ♥

ASMOND

[asmond]

i have to comment - BERNS, can dont be so serious anot!! HAHAHAHAHA

seriously i believe in both, because anything can happen.
But i believe that being friends first is cooler because you take away the pressure/stress of going out when you guys just get to know each other.
Probably interested in each other, but you know, if you dont do a formal formal date, the whole mood & atmosphere will be much more relaxing because you dont have a certain 'direction' to work towards to.

But i seriously think being in love with a best friend is one of the bestest things. like jason mraz's song "I'm lucky in love with my best friend" HAHA.

[anonymous]

mell :)

LOL. what a great question really cause i think about it alot too!

i think both ways can, and the situation is depending on when the 'feelings' happens doesn't it?

if u already know the person and think he's great for you, the feeling will come.
if you see someone and he's great for you physically, the feeling will come too and then u will make sure he's your friend and u move on from there.

to be honest, it doesn't really matter cause better or not depends on individuals during the relationship, not how it started. :)

loves,
GRACEY

MANU

[anonymous]

I still wanna know the story! HAHA

[taihong]

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[whatisinmymind]

YA LAH LOOK WHO'S TALKING. WHEN STEAD.