I'd only had one partner and we used condoms every time, so I'd considered myself pretty safe.
Then a friend who had only had one partner and used condoms every time went to her yearly gyno checkup and was diagnosed with stage 4 cervical cancer from a very aggressive strain of HPV she'd gotten, despite the condoms, from her boyfriend, who had cheated on her while they were together.
At my next gyno exam I asked to be tested for STDs.
Holy God, they can do it with an oral swab now? Last time I got The Test, it involved my arm and a needle the size of a harpoon, and that was only a year ago. (Then again, Health Services may just be behind. Or hate me.)
Yeah they total have the oral swab technology working these days. It's not *quite* as accurate as a blood sample (I think it has more false positives), but not having to wait for results for days/weeks/etc is awesome-tastic.
I'd consider not having sex or even kissing someone since my last HIV test to make it pretty safe.
But as for people who think they are safe, if they have ever had sex, at all, even with the Virgin Mary or something since their last test, they should get tested. Because people lie n cheat n stuff.
Really, just everyone should get tested. Don't even worry about whether you have to worry. It's free, painless, and half an hour out of your day -- if social expectation was that people would just go en masse without trying to decide whether they 'needed' to, I think a lot more people would get tested. So I'm in favor of encouraging that new social expectation however possible. :-)
Basically, 'only get tested if you have reason to believe you might be positive' stigmatizes getting tested itself. And that's no good.
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Then a friend who had only had one partner and used condoms every time went to her yearly gyno checkup and was diagnosed with stage 4 cervical cancer from a very aggressive strain of HPV she'd gotten, despite the condoms, from her boyfriend, who had cheated on her while they were together.
At my next gyno exam I asked to be tested for STDs.
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But as for people who think they are safe, if they have ever had sex, at all, even with the Virgin Mary or something since their last test, they should get tested. Because people lie n cheat n stuff.
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Basically, 'only get tested if you have reason to believe you might be positive' stigmatizes getting tested itself. And that's no good.
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