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Sep 02, 2009 14:35

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hermione is my bff, ginny isn't back yet, asking for help, sirius is gone (again) bawww

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filtered | unhackable also brb adamantined September 2 2009, 18:46:46 UTC
I think maybe you should just... sit down and talk it out. Don't lose your temper, don't be a brat, and lay it out on the table. There's probably stuff from her perspective that you aren't even picking up on that she needs to talk about, too. Just... whatever you do, don't let it fester until you aren't really speaking ever again or anymore at all.

You need to just go up to her, say that you want to talk, and then talk about it. You've all been friends for so long, and I know she wants to make up with you, too. I feel like that's a good enough indication to just get stuff out and said.

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filtered | unhackable wholivedagain September 2 2009, 19:34:19 UTC
We've been talking, though.

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filtered | unhackable adamantined September 3 2009, 00:44:47 UTC
Talking is different from talking.

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filtered | unhackable wholivedagain September 3 2009, 00:59:28 UTC
Oh, no, I think we've done a lot of talking.

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thefutureking September 2 2009, 18:53:29 UTC
Have you told her, calmly, how it makes you feel? That's what everyone kept telling me to do when Merlin was being stupid and upsetting me.

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wholivedagain September 2 2009, 19:34:41 UTC
Gryffindors don't really do calm.

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thefutureking September 2 2009, 20:37:11 UTC
What kind of species is a Gryffindor that it can't be calm?

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wholivedagain September 2 2009, 21:51:06 UTC
Er-it's our house, at school. Where we're sorted. We're temperamental, I guess.

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Filtered harrysbackup September 2 2009, 19:25:55 UTC
Have you tried just saying "Hey, can we please talk?" If so, I might have another idea.

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Filtered wholivedagain September 2 2009, 19:34:57 UTC
What is it?

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Filtered harrysbackup September 2 2009, 19:50:40 UTC
Have a non-biased mediator present.

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Filtered wholivedagain September 2 2009, 21:51:38 UTC
I don't think it's that bad yet. I still like her, anyway.

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deformiwhats September 4 2009, 15:11:10 UTC
Ooh, domestic problems, hey? Look, when it comes to women, sometimes you just gotta let 'em talk themselves out first before you even try to say anything else.

And if that doesn't work, get her something gorgeous.

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