why i think guys are skeevy

[whyhaveless]

so the story goes I met this guy from my friends frat who liked me and asked me out, I wasnt into him and let him know that but I still spoke to him occassionally. I found out the other day that he has a 17 year old girlfriend (keep in mind that he is 22) and hooks up with other girls besides that. So I obviously had to call him out about this

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[redxrhapsody]

If he doesn't want to be manogomous, why does he call her his "girlfriend"? He said himself the relationship isn't going anywhere... so what good is it doing ANYBODY - him, his gf, and other girls he fools around with included - that the two of them stay in the relationship? He outright admitted to doing something wrong. That means that he can fix it. You fix things that are wrong... you dont just let them be so you can get some ass and hurt other people.

I don't know who this guy is... but I think its important he know that any respectable girl wouldn't stick around with a person like him. And if he does realize at any point in his life how wrong he really is (which although he says it... he doesn't really believe it yet) it will take a long time before girls begin to trust him with his apparent history.

[whyhaveless]

ugh it just makes me so frustrated that he really doesnt think that what he is doing is wrong!

[xamylouisex]

yeah, that is skeevy.
i think you calling him out was the right thing to do, and what was a 22 year old man doing with a 17 year old little girl? thats gross. what would they even talk about? and if he was so sure it was going no where and feeling restless he should have broken up with her. definitly skeevy.