Should I stay or should I go?

[wickedwiccan88]

This poses an interesting dilemna. I am now faced with an immediate decision that could possibly alter my entire universe. Man, that sounds dramatic. Thinking about it, no matter what decision I make, there's going to be a little part of me that's unhappy. I just have to decide how much pain is worth it and which option will inflict less

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[amani87]

Tell your dad that you appreciate everything he has done for you and you're not trying to hurt him with your decision. Tell him you've had a lot of difficulties in your life and you deserve an opportunity for happiness. Be honest with him.

[wickedwiccan88]

thank you for the advice. Honesty is always the best policy right?

try this:

[azarnath]

First, tell him the situation.Tell him how you are unhappy and how you want to take advantage of your choice of coming back. Tell him you'd like to re-try the bond thing, but also that you need to end your hell first, then give it a shot next time you can. If you're able, ask if he's had any dilemnas like this, and if he can relate. Whatever you do, do it with confidence.

Re: try this:

[wickedwiccan88]

that is a good idea. I can try to see if I can get him to relate to how I'm feeling. Thank you, hun. :-)

[starysilence]

I've never been in this situation and it seems to be devistating. My advice is to be with held for the main reason that I just love your personality. I know nothing else about you. I know what you type not what you feel. But I will say that if I was in your shoes, I'd close my eyes and see where I pictured myself being the happiest. Your family should want that for you. Follow your dreams and your heart. Dont just tell them to go ahead and catch up with them later. They wont wait.
I hope I get a chance to know you and just remember as corny as it may sound that the sun will come up tomorrow. Bet your bottom dollar that tomorrow they'll be sun, okay?

[wickedwiccan88]

I hope so. :-) Thank you for the support. It means a lot to me. :-D

[theycallmekay]

okay, so I really don't have a suggestion. I decided to leave this comment to tell you your entry made me all teary eyed. I'm sorry all this stuff is going on, and I'm sorry you're confused. There is nothing I, personally, can do, but I can wish you luck. Which I do.

[wickedwiccan88]

Thank you for the luck. I fear I may need it. I just gotta have faith that it will all turn out okay.

[flutegurl144]

kailei, you're such a strong person. i don't think i'd be able to make it though everything you're going though. but you should know i'll support any decision you make. good luck talking to your dad, but i'm sure it'll be ok and he'll understand.

[wickedwiccan88]

Thank you so much for the support, Ashley. That definitely means a lot. I hope he understands. I don't want to hurt him.