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[willowbillygirl]

My whinings have been tried to be worked out with that specific person. My efforts did nothing but get me called a liar and a whore and get me told that whatever happened to me I deserve. So in my instance, getting a hold of this person in real life, doesn't exactly work. Sorry about it all. I think it should be handled in group too. But

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[skylit_drawl]

Mandie, I will say this once. I did not call you a whore. I did not say that you were even dancing inappropriately. And I never told Chris anything about your behavior as far as dancing or guys. I told him that you were drinking. Then you attacked me. So I took it back. You know that, I showed you our conversation.
I don't even care about the groping or dancing, although I think it reflected poorly on the sorority. What I care about is the policy-breaking and the condoning of policy-breaking.
I also would like to talk about this in a group. Perhaps at next chapter, we can discuss this as a sorority.

[willowbillygirl]

"maybe she wasn't drinking" thats not offically taking something back. Thats a way to get yourself out of a bind you put yourself in without admitting wrong.

And telling people that I was "groping and humping" people, automatically portrays whore image. So maybe you didn't actually use the word, but when you told people what you did thats what comes into their brains.

[skylit_drawl]

And when did I or anyone say that I said "groping or humping" to ANYONE besides you? You're the only one I even mentioned that to.

The ONLY thing I said to Chris, in response to his question about why I didn't enjoy formal, was that people were drinking. First I said you were. Then I said you weren't. THAT'S IT. BACK OFF.

[willowbillygirl]

Its not a matter of what you said to who Naomi... its a matter of you trashing sisters in the first place. Don't try and drag this into other issues. You said bad and ugly things about sisters to other people. Not just about me, but about quite a few of us. We have a right to be upset.