why CT is more appealing than boston right now...

[willows090]

so this past thanksgiving weekend was simply amazing. i got out of work on wednesday, drove back up to boston real quick to do some last minute packing and give ares a big hug and kiss goodbye, and plunged into holiday traffic. it took me 3.5 hours to do a 1.5-2 hour trip, so needless to say by the time i got to my friends thanksgiving dinner, i

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[willows090]

it's def overwhelming at times, but most of the time i love being surrounded by the chaos of big families..there's an energy about it that you just can't describe :)

and now i have 3 votes for ct :-P

[skywalker_child]

What? Another ferret? OMG!

And I say I get to vote twice for your return to CT...'cause...well, I'm voting for my mom.

Or something. ;)

[willows090]

haha ok, you get to vote twice ;)

and yup, he now has 2 ferrets, both equally adorable, although jack (the new guy) is so tiny compared to socrates! and htey spoon, it's beyond cute!

Sean's/Borsy's vote

[anonymous]

Here's the thing. Democracy is for collective actions, not personal decisions. You have to decide for yourself whether the friends in CT or the life's path in MA is more important to you. It does kinda read, though, like you're already leaning toward coming back and looking for validation.

So, yeah, all that said, I also vote for your return for purely selfish reasons without any consideration for your own wants and needs and dreams in life. :-)

(Actually, I do have to ask: does living in CT necessarily preclude dance?)

Re: Sean's/Borsy's vote

[willows090]

it's interesting because i thought that when i moved to boston i'd be in the perfect location to pursue what i wanted out of dance and to reconnect with old friends and what not...turns out, even though i'm in a relatively artsy city, i'm still not dancing and i rarely see anyone other than my roomates (and even that is slim since our schedules are so different.) i feel as though i have no direction in life, and being in boston hasn't made the scales tip one way or another. if i am to be in this state of limbo, i'd rather be in it surrounded by those i love most, than alone...if that makes sense. i don't know what's in store for me, or if i really will even move, but right now it's a strong consideration.

thanks for your vote :)