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Love
It's really hard to love someone when you're hurting.
It's really hard to love the person that is hurting you.
It's really hard to give without wanting something back.
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Relationship Building Questions
1) - What your top 5 important elements of a relationship?
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b.
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2) - In terms of your current relationships, are those being met?
3) - What can your partner do to better achieve these elements?
4) - What can you do to better achieve these elements?
5) - Name 5 things that you appreciate or love about your partner
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b.
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You are a safe Harbour in the storm, yet also the ship that needs to be guided away from the rocks.
You can dock in my cove and share my shelter and strength and were it I, I would not feel afraid to face the storm beside you.
I would sail with you and explore the unknown, to confront adventure and fear and reward.
You are fierce and staunch yet ( Read more... ) -
Msg out
Well thats over. She said that she didnt feel any attraction for me nor could see feeling any again. She called our relationship a sinking ship, yet she still hasnt broken up with me so I can only assume she's trying to manipulate me into breaking up with her. Thank-you for your help. I clearly was far far too trusting. Feeling pretty stupid. ( Read more... ) -
2014
People were doing this at New Years, but I was in germany, so thought I'd wait until the end of January instead ( Read more... ) -
Mind block
I think I just had a breakthrough moment in which I realized Jen was right to break up with me ( Read more... ) -
Forgiveness
I think I'm finally at the point where I can forgive myself ( Read more... ) -
learning
i think the best thing I've learned is that it's not enough to want to be a certain way
like - you can want to be the best person in the world, but that's not enough
err
words are failing
um
Lets say you want to be someone's best friend
and you want to be the best possible friend
yet
despite wanting that
doesn't mean that you are always going to be, it ( Read more... ) -
self discovery
One of the best parts about this whole thing are the flashes of awareness I have from time to time of things I was not aware of or didn't see. Sure, the downside is that I'm kinda torturing myself by going through the same stuff over and over again in my brain, but good things are comming from it ( Read more... ) -
Car accident reflections
well we were on our way up from invers to auckland to get our stuff
i was driving.
my mum was fiddling with the radio and i took my eyes off the road for a
second to tell her not to touch the shiney side of the disk
and then the next thing i know im waking up feeling fucking over, the car ( Read more... )