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Mar 23, 2008 18:38

Is there something about me that makes men freak out? or scares them? Am i seriously not the girl you get into a relationship with? I understand that I'm intense at times, but you know what, I'm proud of that. It's who I am. But does that intenseness put people off? What directly the fuck is it about me that always makes me fall just short of being ( Read more... )

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poor kelly... gypsymichaella March 24 2008, 01:30:50 UTC
what you want and need is a philippa to your francis...

I hate to say it honey, but you are from the generation that strong women scare the ever living shit out of men. 90's men are pussies that are too into the metrosexual bull shit to understand that being well groomed does not mean well mannered and intellegent.

some where out there is some poor guy that is whining/ranting/crying that he has a lot to give a woman and why the hell doesn't she understand me and yadda yadda in four part harmony and he's got your name on him, and he's got his name on you...but you two are like those wonderful ships that pass through the night darling never meeting.

as stupid and odd and cliche as this sounds...do a search through one of those stupid dating services...maybe who you are looking for is there with no clue you want him.

something to give thought too....

love ya.
J

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Re: poor kelly... wiltessa March 24 2008, 11:06:03 UTC
oh no. no dating services. I'm also making too much of what happened. I'm already expecting rejection, so i think that's whats happening. Truth is, I agree with alot of what was said, and have to respect it. I just assumed assumed somethings that weren't true, and so i feel like a stupid little girl now.
But sometimes, like yesterday, i didn't feel like being fair.

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Re: poor kelly... gypsymichaella March 24 2008, 14:57:29 UTC
hey if shugrue is willing to take a chance on a lifetime commitment....

any way...even if you are making too much of what is going on darling, 90's men are full of themselves and sometimes don't like it when girls outshine their little metrosexual world.

but if you are taking a step back and taking a breath and looking at things a different way that's good too.

Do what you have to do to make yourself happy kel. That's the whole point of life. If some dumb shmuck isn't making you happy because he can't see the brain past the body, then dump him for a change...and do it hard and when he comes to you and says what the hell???? Then you get the satisfaction of saying every stupid dump line that was used on you and see how he feels. Sometimes it's worth it being the female hyena for a change.

love ya darling.

j

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Re: poor kelly... wiltessa March 24 2008, 16:16:22 UTC
oh no. that's actually the problem. He's seeing the brain. and the body. but i want him to see more of the body. like all of it. And he's definetly NOT a metrosexual. He's very far from it.
I respect what he said. i do. i appreciate his honesty. and there's something to a man who can have me in a skirt on a bed, ready to do everything he wants and some things he never even thought of, and he doesn't dare take the oppurtunity because he doesn't want me to ultimatly get hurt. it's frustrating for me though.

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blueimber March 24 2008, 15:49:38 UTC
*HUG*

our lives are ever in this crazy circular dance m'dear.
i'm pulling for you darling;
praying that there could be for us each a someone
a someday.

See you soon?

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wiltessa March 24 2008, 16:13:07 UTC
yes yes! wednesday it is! I'm full of things that i want to do, but i'm not sure how much of it is actually possible. But yes, i am definetly coming! I'm so excited!

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blueimber March 24 2008, 16:15:32 UTC
give me an idea of what you want to do and i can incorporate it into what i want to show you. ^_^

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wiltessa March 24 2008, 16:49:21 UTC
might be too out of the way though. it's cool if it is! we can always do some of it another day. I wanted to check out the muesuem of natural history. bare with me. i have no idea of the relative location of anything to anywhere. lol

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draseshalen March 25 2008, 15:11:42 UTC
i know how you fell..trust me *sigh* but it sounds like youre giving him the chance to speak his truth even if it may be something that you dont want to hear and that Kelly...is amazing. and you know what else? youre amazing...give him the chance to see it..it might be new for him ^__^ you know i have your back whatever you decide to do...i miss you and you and me need to talk and soon
love you ashke
des

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wiltessa March 26 2008, 02:44:02 UTC
Thank you baby! I was just being insanely selfish. I'm over it now. I'm notoriously impatient. I'm good though now. sorta. kinda.

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