ok gentleman. give it to me raw.

[wiltessa]

A recent conversation with a friend in which we were hashing out our very similar situations has peeked my curiousity. Now, I know that none of you are the same by any means, but I decided that polling the guys on this might give me a point to start from. So , aid in my research.

What makes you want to get into a relationship with a person? What do

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Here ya go!

[anonymous]

WHAT I LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN

Re: Here ya go!

[wiltessa]

Ok- so you take note of the physicality of a person. But what about the eyes and hair and legs? Is it certain colors, lengths and shapes that do it for you?
And go a little deeper in to the stuff under "mentally": why nothing in common? what do you mean by plainess? What is it about cunty and opininated women that gets you going? What about religion? do you want them to be the same creed as you, or just that they have some sort of religious faith?

[wiltessa]

thank you! this is exactly the kind of response i want.
who is this?

[shaunkun]

What makes me get into a relationship?

First, an initial physical/sexual/emotional attachment. Just a pull. Then there is the evaluation where I try to find the thing that's wrong. When I don't find it, I try for the relationship.

I begin to back off when someone gets a bit too close too quickly. Where they demand too much time when I'm not ready to give it - not necessarily an intimacy.

At least that's me. And I skew all dynamics ^_^

[wiltessa]

so you need your space. but where does that line get drawn for you? I get that you don't want to lay all your skeltons down right away with someone, but does that apply to when you are in the relationship as well? Or is someone getting close too quick for you kind of the dealbreaker to the whole relationship deal.