If I know that someone HIV+ is having sex with others and claiming to be neg, what is my responsibility? 
I don’t want to be the sex police, but not sure I can turn a blind eye. Am I wrong in thinking that another’s actions affect/effect us all?
 

Never dull, that’s for sure. 
No sir, not one moment of dull. Even when I might beg for a slab of drab ... nope, none o' that for me.
And when has it ever been otherwise?
When, for that matter, regardless of how much I may moan through times of mayhem, have I ever wanted it to be otherwise. 
Not in this lifetime. 
Heading out for sushi, now, me. ( Read more... )

Funniest Video I have ever seen
(yes, it rained thursday and friday and I had way too much free time.)

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Let me repeat that:
I Am NOT A Queer Whovian!That being said ( Read more... )

OK, how about a Poz Lite, ease into this
New Year, new me. Or back to the ‘old’ me. Or some evolution of the two. Something old, something new (nothing borrowed, not so blue.)
The recent move has had much to do with my ‘rebirth.’ I hadn’t had an apartment I could or even wanted to call home since Pre-K. Finally, a space of my own, comfortable, safe, ( Read more... )

It’s way past time, actually. 
I’ve been holding it in, letting it build up for far to long. I find I’m censoring my conversations, my actions and even my thoughts, avoiding controversy, conflict. I’ve become PG13. This is most decidedly not a good thing. 
But thoughts I’ve been brewing (stewing, not spewing …)
Controversial, to say the least. Not ( Read more... )

In my previous post there are html letters and slashes and stuff before Gila's name that I didn't put there. I"ve tried several times to edit them out but they just refuse to go away. I hate it when the internet adds unwanted editorial punctuation to my posts!

After my marathon, no make that triathlon, of a weekend followed by three physically grueling days of work, I am just whooped. For the first time, I truly feel “middle-aged.” 
I’d promised ( Read more... )

and i'm listening to YouTube - William Shatner Common People live 
just coz I'm twisted like that

and it was awesome and dinner was awesome and he was awesome. I kinda enjoyed myself!
I'm pretty drunk, but fairly coherrant. He's asleep in my bed. I'm not ready for sleep, but I can't type worth a damn, so I'm gonna finish my last glass of wine and take a xanax and go cuddle ...
Dating is fun.