Hun, let me begin with, I had no idea you'd been in the hospital, let alone so many times. Are you doing better now or is there more time in there in your future? I sincerely hope not *hugs*
I've never gotten the point of unfriending. I don't think I've ever done it in all the years I've been on here. People talk about cleaning up their flists because people don't post or comment or whatever, but all I can think is that maybe they just are busy living the life they usually post about and are unavailable to share it with those of us still active. Doesn't mean they don't care about us or ignore us. Life happens, to everyone.
I hope more online time is in your future. I've missed your bright and happy messages and posts. You're an awesome girl and I wouldn't cut you even if I did do those weird flist cut thingies. (*still shrugging over that one until eternity*)
I can understand that some people like to be organised online, but I think the un-friending thing is just downright mean.
A friend is a friend, and when you have that, wether just online or not, it's not something you just get rid of with a click of a button, wether you speak often or barely at all.
I've got tonns of people friended, who I speak to only once or twice a year, but it's always a good conversation and usually a laugh, after a while of silence.
Un-friending just seems so. .clinical? I can't think of the right word. But it's never settled well with me, you know?
Oh, and yeah, I should be ok. Lol. I have the odd stay I might have to do when my next op comes up, but that's a good year or so away. Thank the lord.
Hey there its been a while. Wow I didn't know that you where in the hospital. It's good to hear that you are okay. Miss you on these parts of the woods. I haven't been online a lot these days myself so I apologized if I made you feel that I don't care for not commenting. I just haven't been up to speed lately. It good to hear from you also.
I was just really pissed to get home from the hospital and found 3/4 people who I thought were actual friends had defriended me, just because I'd been gone for a while, you know?
I guess the fact I was still on heavy meds didn't help my mood that day either :S
Your doing ok now too, then? Being ill sucks big time!
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I've never gotten the point of unfriending. I don't think I've ever done it in all the years I've been on here. People talk about cleaning up their flists because people don't post or comment or whatever, but all I can think is that maybe they just are busy living the life they usually post about and are unavailable to share it with those of us still active. Doesn't mean they don't care about us or ignore us. Life happens, to everyone.
I hope more online time is in your future. I've missed your bright and happy messages and posts. You're an awesome girl and I wouldn't cut you even if I did do those weird flist cut thingies. (*still shrugging over that one until eternity*)
*hugs*
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A friend is a friend, and when you have that, wether just online or not, it's not something you just get rid of with a click of a button, wether you speak often or barely at all.
I've got tonns of people friended, who I speak to only once or twice a year, but it's always a good conversation and usually a laugh, after a while of silence.
Un-friending just seems so. .clinical? I can't think of the right word. But it's never settled well with me, you know?
Oh, and yeah, I should be ok. Lol. I have the odd stay I might have to do when my next op comes up, but that's a good year or so away. Thank the lord.
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Been ages!
And I'm getting there. Just glad to be home and with working Internet again! *happy sigh*
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I was just really pissed to get home from the hospital and found 3/4 people who I thought were actual friends had defriended me, just because I'd been gone for a while, you know?
I guess the fact I was still on heavy meds didn't help my mood that day either :S
Your doing ok now too, then? Being ill sucks big time!
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