My Aunt Jan died on Thursday.
She was my dad's SIL, and admittedly her and my Uncle Tom had been separated for some years.
Jan was one of those cases of a good person who sunk down a hole with no one able to find a ladder.
A myriad of issues (complications of scoliosis and osteoarthritis, improperly treated postpartum depression, a mental breakdown that led to a horrific round of ECT) led to her self-medicating for the last 25 years in booze, weed, and pills. Her death was more a case of "when" not "if".
Jan was a conundrum; when she was sober (those rare moments) she was hilarious - sarcastic, witty, and a bit glib. Didn't take stuff too seriously, and always had a great story. She could be a good listener too. But after too many beers, or her traditional bottle of dry white apr