Salsa Festival (and Ron)
Wow. I, just, wow.
I don't even know if I'm saying that about the salsa festival, or about Ron. I'm so in love. I just hope I'm not falling too hard, too soon, and setting myself up for disappointment.
The salsa festival (called "Balagan", meaning 'mess' or 'chaos') was really really fun. Even my sugar behaved well! :) On the 5-hour bus ride down south, I wore my straw fedora, and as usual it spent more time on other people's heads than on mine, which was funny. I brought my threads and did hair-wraps for two of my friends, and I've got a couple of people lined up now who want me to do wraps for them as well :P
That's my friend Karen on the right, she's really fun :) And I'm actually wearing another guy's hat - Gil, the matchmaker type who pushed me and Ron to get together :)
Altogether the bus-ride was pretty fun. What's really funny is that at that point, a lot of people were certain that I was with Ofir. Rumors spread quickly in the salsa club.... Anyway, I set one guy straight that I wasn't with Ofir, but didn't say I was with Ron. Ron wasn't on the bus ride, since he was coming with a couple other guys by car, and nobody knew at that point except for Karen and Gil.
We settled in at the hotel (the room was great!) and went to do a few salsa workshops by the pool. Those were fine.. then later in the evening we dressed up pretty and went to a stand-up show, then dancing :)
That's Karen again, and Roni on the left - she was in the room with us and she's really awesome. At first I thought she was just nice and sweet, but she turned out to be pretty devellish :D More on that later.
After the stand-up show Ron and I snuck off to his room to fool around. There was a lot of kissing and touching, and I took my dress off - and also a lot of interruptions! We didn't bother to lock the door and all 3 of his roommates barged in on us XDDDDD The first one just caught us kissing (he's a guy I went out on one date with once, over a year ago; nothing came out of it), but the second one caught us with my hand down Ron's pants XDDDDDDD He left in a hurry, poor guy (but he friended me on FB the day after the festival :P )
The third roommate to barge in on us... was Ofir. He'd seen us eyeing each other earlier in the day and was already suspicious, and then he came into the room and Ron was caressing my shoulder and I was in panties and bra, so he knew for sure. He seemed pretty blasé about it, but on the last day of the festival Karen told me that Ofir got a strange look on his face when Ron and I kissed in front of him - a look that said "How did I miss my chance with her?" Which is confusing as hell because, wtf? Ofir did want to sleep with me, true, but he didn't do it in a romantic way. He didn't stroke my back or kiss me - he just reached for the button of my jeans. It was very clear that he wanted a fling, not a relationship. And ever since he found out, he's pulled back a little bit. He hasn't touched me except for hello/goodbye hugs and kisses, and he's stopped calling just to say hi or ask if I'm coming to the club.
Ron and I saw each other a LOT during the festival. He spent some time in my room, and I in his. He had his hand in my panties on Thursday night already and it was awesome. On Friday he even went down on me! And I enjoyed it. I don't know why, but with Ori (the Legendary Ex) I couldn't enjoy it, it embarrassed me too much. Probably because I just knew it was a bad idea to fool around with my ex. Anyway! Ron was amazing. I'm not exactly sure if I got off, because it's kinda hard to pinpoint an orgasm when I don't have much sexual experience.. but it sure was nice :) And I've started to get over my fear/shyness when it comes to getting my hands on guys. I jerked him off a few times over the weekend, during the festival.
What's most funny is that after sharing the whole Ofir/Ron story with the new girl in our room, Roni, she really wanted to meet Ron. I introduced them on Thursday and they were fine with each other. Then on Friday night Ron and I were making out in my room (mine and the girls') and they walked in on us too. Ron was still fully dressed and I still had my top and panties on, but we'd been pretty into it... and then Roni comes leaping onto the bed saying "Yay, I've always wanted a threesome!" It was so funny! I'd totally not expected that from her; she looks like such a doll. I'm...... sort of into her. She's really beautiful (if a little clichéd; I'm not sure if I'm into blondes or not) and she's so very sweet and funny and witty. She started rolling around on the bed and she and Ron struck up a conversation about martial arts, which they both do/did. He got this look in his eyes like he was developing a crush on her, and frankly? I'm totally fine with it. I wasn't even bothered when he started giving her a massage. She was putty in his hands. He actually made her woof like a dog XD We've been joking that we'll have a threesome ever since then.
Aside from a few more salsa workshops, Ron and I and another couple from the club, Gil, and a few other friends went on a Jeep ride on Friday and it was SO MUCH FUCKING FUN. I fucking love Jeep rides. Our driver was really crazy awesome and the ride was so bumpy that all our butts hurt by the end of the hour :) The girls and I (not Ron so much) spent most of Friday and Saturday by the pool. I'm finally, finally comfortable with my body and I was very pleased with my new bathing suit. See pose:
I look good and I know it, which is why I spent so much time at the pool in my new bikini. The pool was fun; I'm usually not a water-person, I don't like the pool or the beach, but now that I wear contact lenses, they protect my eyes so the water doesn't sting, and with the heat in Eilat it's just impossible to resist the water :) There was music and line-danicng by the pool all day long, but I hate line-dancing so I just spent most of the time in the water or tanning (safely carefully!) At one point we even danced rueda inside the pool, and it was fucking awesome! :D
That's Ron on the right, leading the rueda :) This was the first time I'd seen him without a shirt on; he's still too shy to take it off when we make out. I'm usually the one who's taking off clothes - he's very amused by it. But what can I do? It's kind of hard to enjoy his hand inside my panties when jeans are in the way, and the same goes for my bra. And my hands go up his shirt over his back and sides most times, but he's never made a move to take off his shirt. I finally asked him about it and he admitted that yes, it's a self-esteem issue. I've said I won't pressure him and really, I understand. It's taken me years and a few crappy relationships (if we can even call them that) to become comfortable with my body. He deserves time as well.
I've noticed that Ron is utterly silent in bed... He spends a lot of time and attention on me; lots of kissing and caressing. Because he's so quiet, and because when we're at his place his brother is on the other side of the wall, I try to stay quiet too - but damn, when he's got his fingers on/in me, and his tongue?? Sheesh. It's hard to stay quiet. I'm not a screamer or anything - it's mostly gasps and little moans. And he's said it reaaaaally turns him on :) He's said it's possible that it's just because he hasn't had a relationship (and thus, sex) in 5 years - he claims he hasn't "flown solo" either but honestly, I'm not sure I buy it. Come on, even I masturbate. It's natural. Even people in steady relationships masturbate, according to the bible Cosmo. But if he says so... well, fine.
On Saturday night we all got back home on the club's bus ride, and instead of taking a cab home (since my parents were at a live show in Tel-Aviv and I hadn't brought my car to the club the day we left for the festival) I hitched a ride with Gil to Ron's place and slept over there :) First time! There was more touching and kissing and lots of cuddling. Saturday marked an entire week where we'd seen each other every single day. And after that? We went out with the salsa friends to shoot some pool! XD
On Monday we finally spent the night apart, but on Tuesday we went to the salsa club as per usual and then went to his place and made ouuuuuuut again XD Then we joined up with some other salsa friends at the beach, at our usual place. After a brief stay at the beach (I didn't go in that much, it's getting fucking cold!) we left at around 5AM.... I showered at Ron's place and we went to bed at 6. It's the latest - or rather, earliest! - I've ever gone to bed........ We didn't fool around anymore, just crashed. It actually took me a while to fall asleep, and I didn't sleep well. But oh well. Next time, I'm hoping he can sleep at my place.
I'm right after the Jewish New Year Eve dinner... fuck am I full, and tired. I think it's bedtime for me :)
I am, quite possibly, looking at the best year of my life :)
I don't even know if I'm saying that about the salsa festival, or about Ron. I'm so in love. I just hope I'm not falling too hard, too soon, and setting myself up for disappointment.
The salsa festival (called "Balagan", meaning 'mess' or 'chaos') was really really fun. Even my sugar behaved well! :) On the 5-hour bus ride down south, I wore my straw fedora, and as usual it spent more time on other people's heads than on mine, which was funny. I brought my threads and did hair-wraps for two of my friends, and I've got a couple of people lined up now who want me to do wraps for them as well :P
That's my friend Karen on the right, she's really fun :) And I'm actually wearing another guy's hat - Gil, the matchmaker type who pushed me and Ron to get together :)
Altogether the bus-ride was pretty fun. What's really funny is that at that point, a lot of people were certain that I was with Ofir. Rumors spread quickly in the salsa club.... Anyway, I set one guy straight that I wasn't with Ofir, but didn't say I was with Ron. Ron wasn't on the bus ride, since he was coming with a couple other guys by car, and nobody knew at that point except for Karen and Gil.
We settled in at the hotel (the room was great!) and went to do a few salsa workshops by the pool. Those were fine.. then later in the evening we dressed up pretty and went to a stand-up show, then dancing :)
That's Karen again, and Roni on the left - she was in the room with us and she's really awesome. At first I thought she was just nice and sweet, but she turned out to be pretty devellish :D More on that later.
After the stand-up show Ron and I snuck off to his room to fool around. There was a lot of kissing and touching, and I took my dress off - and also a lot of interruptions! We didn't bother to lock the door and all 3 of his roommates barged in on us XDDDDD The first one just caught us kissing (he's a guy I went out on one date with once, over a year ago; nothing came out of it), but the second one caught us with my hand down Ron's pants XDDDDDDD He left in a hurry, poor guy (but he friended me on FB the day after the festival :P )
The third roommate to barge in on us... was Ofir. He'd seen us eyeing each other earlier in the day and was already suspicious, and then he came into the room and Ron was caressing my shoulder and I was in panties and bra, so he knew for sure. He seemed pretty blasé about it, but on the last day of the festival Karen told me that Ofir got a strange look on his face when Ron and I kissed in front of him - a look that said "How did I miss my chance with her?" Which is confusing as hell because, wtf? Ofir did want to sleep with me, true, but he didn't do it in a romantic way. He didn't stroke my back or kiss me - he just reached for the button of my jeans. It was very clear that he wanted a fling, not a relationship. And ever since he found out, he's pulled back a little bit. He hasn't touched me except for hello/goodbye hugs and kisses, and he's stopped calling just to say hi or ask if I'm coming to the club.
Ron and I saw each other a LOT during the festival. He spent some time in my room, and I in his. He had his hand in my panties on Thursday night already and it was awesome. On Friday he even went down on me! And I enjoyed it. I don't know why, but with Ori (the Legendary Ex) I couldn't enjoy it, it embarrassed me too much. Probably because I just knew it was a bad idea to fool around with my ex. Anyway! Ron was amazing. I'm not exactly sure if I got off, because it's kinda hard to pinpoint an orgasm when I don't have much sexual experience.. but it sure was nice :) And I've started to get over my fear/shyness when it comes to getting my hands on guys. I jerked him off a few times over the weekend, during the festival.
What's most funny is that after sharing the whole Ofir/Ron story with the new girl in our room, Roni, she really wanted to meet Ron. I introduced them on Thursday and they were fine with each other. Then on Friday night Ron and I were making out in my room (mine and the girls') and they walked in on us too. Ron was still fully dressed and I still had my top and panties on, but we'd been pretty into it... and then Roni comes leaping onto the bed saying "Yay, I've always wanted a threesome!" It was so funny! I'd totally not expected that from her; she looks like such a doll. I'm...... sort of into her. She's really beautiful (if a little clichéd; I'm not sure if I'm into blondes or not) and she's so very sweet and funny and witty. She started rolling around on the bed and she and Ron struck up a conversation about martial arts, which they both do/did. He got this look in his eyes like he was developing a crush on her, and frankly? I'm totally fine with it. I wasn't even bothered when he started giving her a massage. She was putty in his hands. He actually made her woof like a dog XD We've been joking that we'll have a threesome ever since then.
Aside from a few more salsa workshops, Ron and I and another couple from the club, Gil, and a few other friends went on a Jeep ride on Friday and it was SO MUCH FUCKING FUN. I fucking love Jeep rides. Our driver was really crazy awesome and the ride was so bumpy that all our butts hurt by the end of the hour :) The girls and I (not Ron so much) spent most of Friday and Saturday by the pool. I'm finally, finally comfortable with my body and I was very pleased with my new bathing suit. See pose:
I look good and I know it, which is why I spent so much time at the pool in my new bikini. The pool was fun; I'm usually not a water-person, I don't like the pool or the beach, but now that I wear contact lenses, they protect my eyes so the water doesn't sting, and with the heat in Eilat it's just impossible to resist the water :) There was music and line-danicng by the pool all day long, but I hate line-dancing so I just spent most of the time in the water or tanning (safely carefully!) At one point we even danced rueda inside the pool, and it was fucking awesome! :D
That's Ron on the right, leading the rueda :) This was the first time I'd seen him without a shirt on; he's still too shy to take it off when we make out. I'm usually the one who's taking off clothes - he's very amused by it. But what can I do? It's kind of hard to enjoy his hand inside my panties when jeans are in the way, and the same goes for my bra. And my hands go up his shirt over his back and sides most times, but he's never made a move to take off his shirt. I finally asked him about it and he admitted that yes, it's a self-esteem issue. I've said I won't pressure him and really, I understand. It's taken me years and a few crappy relationships (if we can even call them that) to become comfortable with my body. He deserves time as well.
I've noticed that Ron is utterly silent in bed... He spends a lot of time and attention on me; lots of kissing and caressing. Because he's so quiet, and because when we're at his place his brother is on the other side of the wall, I try to stay quiet too - but damn, when he's got his fingers on/in me, and his tongue?? Sheesh. It's hard to stay quiet. I'm not a screamer or anything - it's mostly gasps and little moans. And he's said it reaaaaally turns him on :) He's said it's possible that it's just because he hasn't had a relationship (and thus, sex) in 5 years - he claims he hasn't "flown solo" either but honestly, I'm not sure I buy it. Come on, even I masturbate. It's natural. Even people in steady relationships masturbate, according to the bible Cosmo. But if he says so... well, fine.
On Saturday night we all got back home on the club's bus ride, and instead of taking a cab home (since my parents were at a live show in Tel-Aviv and I hadn't brought my car to the club the day we left for the festival) I hitched a ride with Gil to Ron's place and slept over there :) First time! There was more touching and kissing and lots of cuddling. Saturday marked an entire week where we'd seen each other every single day. And after that? We went out with the salsa friends to shoot some pool! XD
On Monday we finally spent the night apart, but on Tuesday we went to the salsa club as per usual and then went to his place and made ouuuuuuut again XD Then we joined up with some other salsa friends at the beach, at our usual place. After a brief stay at the beach (I didn't go in that much, it's getting fucking cold!) we left at around 5AM.... I showered at Ron's place and we went to bed at 6. It's the latest - or rather, earliest! - I've ever gone to bed........ We didn't fool around anymore, just crashed. It actually took me a while to fall asleep, and I didn't sleep well. But oh well. Next time, I'm hoping he can sleep at my place.
I'm right after the Jewish New Year Eve dinner... fuck am I full, and tired. I think it's bedtime for me :)
I am, quite possibly, looking at the best year of my life :)